Insightful post for myself
What is my personal "Why" in life?If I never met, Richard, (not that I don't feel incredibly blessing meeting Mehdi: Words can never describe just how blessed I actually feel, for life), if I never felt I want to, or was born to give my all to a partner, while with that partner, to forever show undying loyalty to that one person who I'd spend the rest of my life with, what would be my personal "Why", if I never had this deep value? What would be my why actually be?I guess in a way, I always valued my time alone, where I can think deeply about myself, write lyrics about how I was feeling, and basically journaling often when I was wanting to escape school days in general. Reconnecting to myself when I feel lost in this world, was why I wrote, to find myself again.When writing, I am not judged, but free to feel and to express.I am allow to be human between the pages.I am my most authentic self when I am trying to find my place in this world, whether that is with someone special or alone, I am trying to find that anchor that will ground me at all times through life's ups and downs, that clear definition of who I am, and of what makes me me, and that, is authenticity.I took a test online and my results are as shows:You're a Caring HelperYou are concerned with helping others and making practical contributions to the world around you. For you, work is an opportunity to be of service to the people and organizations that you care about. You are caring and supportive and like to feel that you have been helpful to others.You are a natural caretaker who tends to see what other people need and step in to offer assistance when you can. You like a sense of camaraderie and cooperation, and want a workplace where everyone works together to get things done.You appreciate systems and processes that allow you to be efficient and effective in accomplishing useful tasks. You like clear expectations and want to know how your work has helped others in practical ways.You are drawn to work that allows you to help others and make a positive impact on the world. You like to see your efforts improving the lives of others. You are motivated by values in your work and need to do something you really believe in.Apparently, my personality type is: ISFJYour Personality Type in DepthYou are driven by your personal values, and are conscientious in your behavior. You typically want to work hard, get along with others, and make sure you do what is expected of you. You value relationships highly and strive to cooperate and maintain harmony with others. You want stability and longevity in your relationships, and tend to maintain a deep devotion to family. You feel most connected with people you know you can rely upon over the long term.Your Core Values: Cooperation Commitment Reliability TraditionYour Key Motivators: Considering the needs of others Observing traditions Fulfilling responsibilities Maintaining strong relationshipsYou appreciate tradition and like knowing how things were done in the past. You are loyal to established methods and values, and want to observe the proper, accepted way of doing things. You place great importance on fitting in with established institutions and contributing what you can to maintain strong, stable social structures. In groups, you often take on the role of historian, ensuring that new members respect and value the established customs.You are conventional and grounded, and enjoy contributing to established structures of society. You are a steady and committed worker with a deep sense of responsibility to others. You focus on fulfilling your duties, particularly when you are taking care of the needs of other people. You want others to know that you are reliable and can be trusted to do what is expected of you. You are conscientious and methodical, and persist until the job is done.
