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hmm...spending more time and understanding him abit more...think he is a nice person...who tends to b over excited at times but knows how to act at the critical moment and is conscious of the situation although he might seem oblivious when high... a very peace loving person...as long as you dont get into his bad books...doesnt condemn or judge a person by small things..unless u really step onto his tail... hahaha in simple terms... street wise yet innocent...dependable as you can be sure that he would never or even think of backstabbing anyone.
however one majoyr demerit point is that hes is abit unsensitive...more of a talker than a listener..this i can confirm..abit self absorbed in his own world and ideas..and very technology focused...not really knowing how to enjoy life..but what is the definition of enjoying life...hmmmim also not sure..i dont think i know how to enjoy life too..haha!
well...all i can say at the moment is...if something evolves beyond friendship will be good (i can say now that i do think quite highly of him but im quite sure im not in love w him yet)...but if nothing happens its nice to have a friend lik him...
however one majoyr demerit point is that hes is abit unsensitive...more of a talker than a listener..this i can confirm..abit self absorbed in his own world and ideas..and very technology focused...not really knowing how to enjoy life..but what is the definition of enjoying life...hmmmim also not sure..i dont think i know how to enjoy life too..haha!
well...all i can say at the moment is...if something evolves beyond friendship will be good (i can say now that i do think quite highly of him but im quite sure im not in love w him yet)...but if nothing happens its nice to have a friend lik him...
him
from my chat and observations of him...he seems calm n collected when alone or doing things he conc on...but when there are more people around and his friends join him, he tends to get over excited and high and thus speed up everything..
i hope he will be comfortable enough w me to be calm..
..but from our chats i realiz that hes a very matured person who is not really a child...he have his own goals and own ideas on what to do with his life, he have thought thru his options and his own problems..
well..i cant say hes realy e one for me...but i am interested to find out now...but now..after knowing how good he is...its my turn to feel inferior...
as what is there to like abt me?
o well..self confidence.
doesnt matter if he doesnt lik me in e end..just believe in urself..will eventually find the right person.. =)
i hope he will be comfortable enough w me to be calm..
..but from our chats i realiz that hes a very matured person who is not really a child...he have his own goals and own ideas on what to do with his life, he have thought thru his options and his own problems..
well..i cant say hes realy e one for me...but i am interested to find out now...but now..after knowing how good he is...its my turn to feel inferior...
as what is there to like abt me?
o well..self confidence.
doesnt matter if he doesnt lik me in e end..just believe in urself..will eventually find the right person.. =)
him
from chatting with his best buddy today..i realized that what i have at hand might be a person with extremely high IQ but relatively low EQ. someone who thinks very simply and his mind is filled with so much things that he doesnt have the capacity to think about human interactions.
very similar to my dad this way.
he is sort of in a world of his own..doesnt know the technique of communications with humans. a very callous person who doesnt observe much on what is happening around him.
in a sense he is very smart..but.. he is still pure and simple in his way of thinking most of the time. he doesnt know how to observe and cater to other's needs or know how to take care of others...but is a nice person at such that he will accept what you told him but he is not able to observe that himself...
will i have the patience to deal w him?
and his parents who are from a rather prestigious descending..will they accept me?
also given his character..is he able to get along with my mum..given his similarities to my father. and will our families get along?
im seriously considering way too much when nothing is settled yet. but...if i dont start thinking of all these and put a brake on things now in case they spiral out of control....when will i have the chance to think about all these?
when these problems bcome reality??
wont that be too late?
very similar to my dad this way.
he is sort of in a world of his own..doesnt know the technique of communications with humans. a very callous person who doesnt observe much on what is happening around him.
in a sense he is very smart..but.. he is still pure and simple in his way of thinking most of the time. he doesnt know how to observe and cater to other's needs or know how to take care of others...but is a nice person at such that he will accept what you told him but he is not able to observe that himself...
will i have the patience to deal w him?
and his parents who are from a rather prestigious descending..will they accept me?
also given his character..is he able to get along with my mum..given his similarities to my father. and will our families get along?
im seriously considering way too much when nothing is settled yet. but...if i dont start thinking of all these and put a brake on things now in case they spiral out of control....when will i have the chance to think about all these?
when these problems bcome reality??
wont that be too late?