him

from chatting with his best buddy today..i realized that what i have at hand might be a person with extremely high IQ but relatively low EQ. someone who thinks very simply and his mind is filled with so much things that he doesnt have the capacity to think about human interactions.

very similar to my dad this way.

he is sort of in a world of his own..doesnt know the technique of communications with humans. a very callous person who doesnt observe much on what is happening around him.

in a sense he is very smart..but.. he is still pure and simple in his way of thinking most of the time. he doesnt know how to observe and cater to other's needs or know how to take care of others...but is a nice person at such that he will accept what you told him but he is not able to observe that himself...

will i have the patience to deal w him?

and his parents who are from a rather prestigious descending..will they accept me?
also given his character..is he able to get along with my mum..given his similarities to my father. and will our families get along?

im seriously considering way too much when nothing is settled yet. but...if i dont start thinking of all these and put a brake on things now in case they spiral out of control....when will i have the chance to think about all these?




when these problems bcome reality??

wont that be too late?