all or nothing
whether u have everything or whether u have nothing is just a matter of perspective..
if u think carefully and throughly..u would realize no trouble in the world is too big to overcome..and if its not possible to overcome there is always another way that u can take..its all a matter of how u tackle the problem and from which perspective u view it from...
if u focus on what is present instead of what is missingyou will have a much happier and fulfilling life..
if u think carefully and throughly..u would realize no trouble in the world is too big to overcome..and if its not possible to overcome there is always another way that u can take..its all a matter of how u tackle the problem and from which perspective u view it from...
if u focus on what is present instead of what is missingyou will have a much happier and fulfilling life..
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hmmm...is it attraction or issit sympathy or issit just plain flattery and superficial appreciation?
how much do i understand him..
how much of him does it attracts me..
am i able to overlook the future problems..?
can i overcome the cultural differences?
am i able to accept his physial defects?and all the other flaws that i see are present?
is my mum gg to be able to accept it? and the rest of my extended family..?
i know that i dont care about it and in fact it makes me look upon him in a different light..valuing and appreciating his spontaneity in living with no resentmt or anger at the world and even learning and discovering it with more passion than others..
his knowledge impresses me..his spontaneity intrigues me, his excitement influences me...and our conversations makes me happy
but is all these just a result of me thinking too much into things? or is he really how i interpret him to be?
i believe i do like him now..but is he what i needed? i still need to observe and understand him more ..is the most important factor that im looking for in a partner present in him? is he someone who is willing and able to protect me? can he understand me?
and most importantly...
does he like me too?
how much do i understand him..
how much of him does it attracts me..
am i able to overlook the future problems..?
can i overcome the cultural differences?
am i able to accept his physial defects?and all the other flaws that i see are present?
is my mum gg to be able to accept it? and the rest of my extended family..?
i know that i dont care about it and in fact it makes me look upon him in a different light..valuing and appreciating his spontaneity in living with no resentmt or anger at the world and even learning and discovering it with more passion than others..
his knowledge impresses me..his spontaneity intrigues me, his excitement influences me...and our conversations makes me happy
but is all these just a result of me thinking too much into things? or is he really how i interpret him to be?
i believe i do like him now..but is he what i needed? i still need to observe and understand him more ..is the most important factor that im looking for in a partner present in him? is he someone who is willing and able to protect me? can he understand me?
and most importantly...
does he like me too?
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as much as i dont want to...looking back at all the past memories i had..still brings tears to my eyes.
new memories will need to be made in order to forget the old ones. and they are not really forgotten, just placed at the back of your head.
be very clear what u wanted and is getting yourself into..no one will ever be as nice as maomao..always remb this
new memories will need to be made in order to forget the old ones. and they are not really forgotten, just placed at the back of your head.
be very clear what u wanted and is getting yourself into..no one will ever be as nice as maomao..always remb this