inspirational
today after my site visit i ate lunch with my supervisor, we have quite a long talk and she share with me some significant events which happened in her life..namely things about her husband, her son and her nephew..she is really a very cheerful and optimistic person who is determine and logical at the same time. she is very clear at what she wan to do in her life and really worked hard towards it. she started off as a drafter and is now a senior engineer..you can imagine the amount of hard work she put in...she taught me an impt lesson, when faced with a prob..just solving it doesnt help matters, u need to go to the root of the prob to find out what caused it to really prevent it from happening again.. everything happening around us needs to be analysed..as a simple thing might actu represent an impt lesson in life.
she talk to me about her husband and what kinda person he is.. from what she told me..her husband is a very wise and principled man...he is very strict in his believes and asked highly of himself..their communication is very open and they genuinely love each other alot..thinking back..it seems to be the ideal husband for any woman, someone who is logical and inspirational. i believe my next r/s shld b very serious..hoping the end results to be marriage..i will not rush and take my time to understand the guy more, to know him more, i hope he will be a mature, caring, inspirational, responsible and disciplined man..who is able to inspire me and really make me love him enough to overlook all his physical faults..in what circumstance will that happen i wont know..but i will work hard fro now onwards to enrich myself to make myself worthy of such a good guy..and make myself grow to be able to appreciate such a good man.
my supervisors quoted something from her husband which i find very true..and will do my best to work towards it.
"walk your life with 3 things:
1, be thankful for everything that is given to you
2. patience to solve the problems u faced
3. acceptance to the mishaps that happen to u"
also she mentioned how she and her husband brought up their son, they do not separate him and protect him from the possible contanminantsi n the society, they teach him the logic and trust him to understand and noe what he is doing. they allow him to experiemtn and try and mix around with different friends. its thru trying then will he know who is right and who is not. its thru comparison that he will noe which group is the right friends for him..we shld nv isolate our kids from danger..instead we should educate them and let them experiment..for them to take the responsibility of their own life.
from what my supervisor told me their son is also a very mature and responsible person..i guess the growing environment really plays an impt part in e development of a child's character.what kind of parents will rear what kind of children. her son is really someone whom a parent would be proud of. when a person is in the dumps, what he needs most is not comfort/concern or encouragement..what he needs most is inspiration and a reason to change. he needs a goal to walk towards and needs to know that e people dearest to him have nt change their love for him despite what he haf done..and would always support him as he change...
she told me that her son onces said" there are times when i really wanted to do something bad, but i thought of you and stopped myself..that is how much i love you."
it is really heartwarming to hear such stories..and to know that a family share such bonds betw them..i believe i nv managed to use words to describe how i feel at that time when i hear this..i really wanted to cry..and i dont know what are the tears respresenting...
i guess we can never have too much love to share, dont be afraid of doing too much, instead be scared that you might be doing too little...
will end off with one last quote from my supervisor
" never take others safety net as your own. you need to build yours by yourself"
she talk to me about her husband and what kinda person he is.. from what she told me..her husband is a very wise and principled man...he is very strict in his believes and asked highly of himself..their communication is very open and they genuinely love each other alot..thinking back..it seems to be the ideal husband for any woman, someone who is logical and inspirational. i believe my next r/s shld b very serious..hoping the end results to be marriage..i will not rush and take my time to understand the guy more, to know him more, i hope he will be a mature, caring, inspirational, responsible and disciplined man..who is able to inspire me and really make me love him enough to overlook all his physical faults..in what circumstance will that happen i wont know..but i will work hard fro now onwards to enrich myself to make myself worthy of such a good guy..and make myself grow to be able to appreciate such a good man.
my supervisors quoted something from her husband which i find very true..and will do my best to work towards it.
"walk your life with 3 things:
1, be thankful for everything that is given to you
2. patience to solve the problems u faced
3. acceptance to the mishaps that happen to u"
also she mentioned how she and her husband brought up their son, they do not separate him and protect him from the possible contanminantsi n the society, they teach him the logic and trust him to understand and noe what he is doing. they allow him to experiemtn and try and mix around with different friends. its thru trying then will he know who is right and who is not. its thru comparison that he will noe which group is the right friends for him..we shld nv isolate our kids from danger..instead we should educate them and let them experiment..for them to take the responsibility of their own life.
from what my supervisor told me their son is also a very mature and responsible person..i guess the growing environment really plays an impt part in e development of a child's character.what kind of parents will rear what kind of children. her son is really someone whom a parent would be proud of. when a person is in the dumps, what he needs most is not comfort/concern or encouragement..what he needs most is inspiration and a reason to change. he needs a goal to walk towards and needs to know that e people dearest to him have nt change their love for him despite what he haf done..and would always support him as he change...
she told me that her son onces said" there are times when i really wanted to do something bad, but i thought of you and stopped myself..that is how much i love you."
it is really heartwarming to hear such stories..and to know that a family share such bonds betw them..i believe i nv managed to use words to describe how i feel at that time when i hear this..i really wanted to cry..and i dont know what are the tears respresenting...
i guess we can never have too much love to share, dont be afraid of doing too much, instead be scared that you might be doing too little...
will end off with one last quote from my supervisor
" never take others safety net as your own. you need to build yours by yourself"
12th june..
the day i made the biggest mistake of my life...haha....
i let go of the best and only guy who will genuinely love me for who i am..
im too immature and childish..
i cant distinguish betw feeling flattered and genuine fondness..i let him go becoz i was distracted by the male attention given to me during my internship..yes a silly thing to do..but a deed already committed and now there is no turning back..
i noticed but forgot all his past efforts and sacrifice made..looking bk now..where can i find another guy who genuinely made an effort to change when i express my feelings...i guess i took him for granted..so much that although i noticed his efforts i didnt made much out of it..i was too selfish and materialistic..effort is worth much more than anything else..and should be appreciated and not forgottened..
but i have no regrets..let this be a lesson learnt...if i dont grow up this will still happen eventually..when working life starts there will be more distractions present..if i dont grow up,the same thing could happen to the nxt and the nxt nxt and the nxt nxt nxt relationship..if there is going to be anymore that is..
i dont wish for his forgiveness and get bk together, i hope we can still maintain as friends..maybe we are better off as friends anyway..since he always said i treat friends much better than my family and him..
i wish he would b able to find a girl genuinely worthy of his love and hope wad i ahve done to him have not destroyed his faith in relationship entirely.. eventually a girl who is really worthy of his love will appear and heal his wounds..he will have my blessings..
meanwhile i will take this time to reflect and grow and mature. from a spoilt little girl into a woman who is really worthy of a good man's affection.
love is...
....giving your all without fear of getting hurt....
....thinking and caring for him without questioning if he will return the same affection because u noe he will....
....appreciating what he had done for u irregardless if it is what u wanted....
....love is lookin at what is really in front of you instead of comparing what u have w ur fantasy world....
i let go of the best and only guy who will genuinely love me for who i am..
im too immature and childish..
i cant distinguish betw feeling flattered and genuine fondness..i let him go becoz i was distracted by the male attention given to me during my internship..yes a silly thing to do..but a deed already committed and now there is no turning back..
i noticed but forgot all his past efforts and sacrifice made..looking bk now..where can i find another guy who genuinely made an effort to change when i express my feelings...i guess i took him for granted..so much that although i noticed his efforts i didnt made much out of it..i was too selfish and materialistic..effort is worth much more than anything else..and should be appreciated and not forgottened..
but i have no regrets..let this be a lesson learnt...if i dont grow up this will still happen eventually..when working life starts there will be more distractions present..if i dont grow up,the same thing could happen to the nxt and the nxt nxt and the nxt nxt nxt relationship..if there is going to be anymore that is..
i dont wish for his forgiveness and get bk together, i hope we can still maintain as friends..maybe we are better off as friends anyway..since he always said i treat friends much better than my family and him..
i wish he would b able to find a girl genuinely worthy of his love and hope wad i ahve done to him have not destroyed his faith in relationship entirely.. eventually a girl who is really worthy of his love will appear and heal his wounds..he will have my blessings..
meanwhile i will take this time to reflect and grow and mature. from a spoilt little girl into a woman who is really worthy of a good man's affection.
love is...
....giving your all without fear of getting hurt....
....thinking and caring for him without questioning if he will return the same affection because u noe he will....
....appreciating what he had done for u irregardless if it is what u wanted....
....love is lookin at what is really in front of you instead of comparing what u have w ur fantasy world....
早い ～～～＞。＜～～～
今週末は早い終わりました！！ T_T もう少し休みたいですけど。
明日は忙しい週が始めます。。。大変な仕事がします！！やっだ～～～。・ﾟﾟ･(≧д≦)･ﾟﾟ･｡
仕事は毎週月曜日から 金曜日まで、午前八時半にスタート。 遅くないたい だから 毎日六時ごろに起きます。仕事は午後五時半に終わりますけど、用事が多いですから もう遅い帰ります。仕事で たくさん習くない物があります。だから 全部で新う思っています。私はもっと頑張ります、仕事にたくさん物を習いたい！(o^-')b
もう十時半ですね。。。私はそろそろ寝ますよ～～
じゃ~~またね
PS:次の回 私はもう長く書きたい！ WOOOOSSSHHH!!!
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明日は忙しい週が始めます。。。大変な仕事がします！！やっだ～～～。・ﾟﾟ･(≧д≦)･ﾟﾟ･｡仕事は毎週月曜日から 金曜日まで、午前八時半にスタート。 遅くないたい だから 毎日六時ごろに起きます。仕事は午後五時半に終わりますけど、用事が多いですから もう遅い帰ります。仕事で たくさん習くない物があります。だから 全部で新う思っています。私はもっと頑張ります、仕事にたくさん物を習いたい！(o^-')b
もう十時半ですね。。。私はそろそろ寝ますよ～～
じゃ~~またね
PS:次の回 私はもう長く書きたい！ WOOOOSSSHHH!!!
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