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【5-9-5】Method
⁂∞§∞⭐︎ Interpersonal relationships at work improvement methods 5〜『Try to turn into laughter. 』〜⭐︎∞§∞⁂
It’s the continuation of last time.
(＊Ref:【5-9-4】Interpersonal relationships at work improvement methods 4〜『Anyway listen to your boss without objecting his argument. moreover to repeat to ask his contradictions』〜).
By the way, it’s really tired to listen to complaints of someone, isn’t it?
Therefore, I am going to describe this coping method when it forces you to listen to complaints of someone.
The reason why various complaints is accumulated each other on Interpersonal relationships is people take words at face value each other.
Actually, people don’t quite try to say their true intentions.
For example, one’s position, pride, business manners, self-preservation and so on, various speculations are jumbled together on one’s mind resulting in it appears outside as attitude and words.
You can’t see through true intentions of the person behind words of the person unless you pretty see through the person such as personality, sense of value and way of thinking.
Nevertheless you take words at face value without consideration of it, misunderstandings occur each other resulting in you can’t quite improve your Interpersonal relationships.
I think that such as worries, suffering and conflict, all these are actually illusions and people arbitrarily make them.
That’s why I think that these are insubstantial things and it is actually nothing serious.
At first, I recommend that you should tell one who complains somebody about that.
Then, you do nothing but change all bad personality of other into butt of a joke and let’s laugh about that.
By doing so, the person is going to think that self seems ridiculous what feeling dissatisfied and complaining about people.
Thereby, the person would be laughing together you.
To change bad personality of other into butt of a joke is most difficult point, however if you can do this, it’s extremely helpful for you.
Well then, see you next article.(*^。^*)
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