not the first time i know.
you know what's the worst kind of group members?
those with no will to help themselves. and they think they will always have someone to rely on.
honestly i dont give a fk if you dont wanna help yourself. it's okay, nomb anyway. but if your poor attitude and inputs affect others, then seriously look into the mirror and say, i think i'm a selfish bastard.
you can fk care karma, but that doesnt mean it's not gonna happen to you.
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those with no will to help themselves. and they think they will always have someone to rely on.
honestly i dont give a fk if you dont wanna help yourself. it's okay, nomb anyway. but if your poor attitude and inputs affect others, then seriously look into the mirror and say, i think i'm a selfish bastard.
you can fk care karma, but that doesnt mean it's not gonna happen to you.
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I really need a break, a long one.
When i was 5 years old, my mom always told me that happiness was the
key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be
when I grow up. I wrote down "happy." They told me I didn't understand
the assignment and I told them they didn't understand life.
uh....
recently i learnt a way to handle family conflicts, or to nip in the bud.
the method is........LAUGH! tadah!
such a powerful word,isnt it?
okay, this works especially when i handle my dad.
he's the root of all family conflicts, hahaha or i should say, when he's pissed, the whole family'll be put in a bad mood.
and he's pissed like most of the time he's home, hahaha we casually blamed it on the two strokes he had, which completely screwed his anger management and temperament.
okay back to laughing, so when he's jumping mad at whatsoever trivial issues, i'll find a point to laugh, and i mean genuinely laugh.
hahaha i start to find the reactions of my pissed off brother, or mother, or father, amusing.
sounds sadistic i know, but that's prolly the only way i try to stop myself from getting pissed because any of them is pissed.
laughters reduced the tension, not entirely but......at least significantly enough :)
wahahaha, i guess at this point of my life, where i'm so cowardly scared of losing any of them forever, i wanna try my best to minimise useless annoying upsetting family conflicts that waste the time we can use to create fond memories.
goodnight world!
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the method is........LAUGH! tadah!
such a powerful word,isnt it?
okay, this works especially when i handle my dad.
he's the root of all family conflicts, hahaha or i should say, when he's pissed, the whole family'll be put in a bad mood.
and he's pissed like most of the time he's home, hahaha we casually blamed it on the two strokes he had, which completely screwed his anger management and temperament.
okay back to laughing, so when he's jumping mad at whatsoever trivial issues, i'll find a point to laugh, and i mean genuinely laugh.
hahaha i start to find the reactions of my pissed off brother, or mother, or father, amusing.
sounds sadistic i know, but that's prolly the only way i try to stop myself from getting pissed because any of them is pissed.
laughters reduced the tension, not entirely but......at least significantly enough :)
wahahaha, i guess at this point of my life, where i'm so cowardly scared of losing any of them forever, i wanna try my best to minimise useless annoying upsetting family conflicts that waste the time we can use to create fond memories.
goodnight world!
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chocs and wine
watched a documentary on zurich this morning!
and part of my heart went from japan to europe.
now i have two places i wanna spend xmas at!
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and part of my heart went from japan to europe.
now i have two places i wanna spend xmas at!
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