ASAKATSU2020 Vol.6-158
三人会
three meeting
おはようございます☀
本日は6時起床、
ブログ投稿です✨️
昨晩は毎週土曜恒例の
三人会でした
1人は子供寝かしつけて、
自分が寝てしまう
あるあるで欠席（笑）
8年来のなか、
もはや従兄弟に近い
友人と近況報告しました
嫌われる勇気の中で、
アドラ心理学を本当に
実践できるには、
生きてきた年数の
半分の時間が必要と
書かれています
アドラ心理学に限らず、
人が本当に変わるには
それくらいの年月は
必要だと思います
その友人が26歳の時に
同じ勉強会にいて、
それから人生変える決断を
してきたとしたら、
39歳で変わることになりますね
今は34歳、
法則型のこの友人は
本当についこの間までは
あまり変わってなかったのですが
昨晩あたりからやけに、
主体性を発揮する発言が
多くなりました
蕾が突然、
徐々に開いてきた感じです
あと5年かけて、
花を開花させて行くのだと
思います
8年も定期的に会う友達を、
社会人になってからも
やってくれてことには
本当に感謝感謝です
この人との御縁、
時の経過と人格の熟成は
生きてる実感と
人生の有り難さを痛感します
The Enemy of the Best is, good
この言葉に本気で取り組む時が来ました
本日も最高に創造的で、
ワクワクする一日にしましょう！
過去の投稿はこちらから
Good morning! ☀
Woke up at 6:00 AM today,
and now it's time for a blog post! ✨️
Last night was our regular Saturday
"three-person gathering."
One of us missed it because of the classic
"fell asleep while putting the kids to bed" scenario (laughs).
So, I caught up with the other friend,
whom I've known for 8 years
and who feels more like a cousin at this point.
In the book The Courage to Be Disliked,
it is written that to truly put Adlerian psychology into practice,
it takes half the number of years you have been alive.
I believe that, not just with Adlerian psychology,
it really does take about that much time
for a person to genuinely change.
If that friend was 26 when we were in the same study group,
and made the decision to change their life then,
It means they will fully transform at the age of 39.
They are 34 now.
This friend—who has a very principled personality—
honestly hadn't changed much until very recently.
But starting around last night,
they suddenly began making a lot of
highly proactive and independent remarks.
It feels like a bud that has suddenly,
yet steadily, begun to open.
I believe they will spend the next 5 years
bringing that flower into full bloom.
I am so incredibly grateful to have a friend
who continues to meet with me regularly for 8 years,
even after we became working adults.
My connection with this person,
the passage of time, and the maturation of our character—
these things make me deeply feel what it means to be alive
and how precious life truly is.
"The Enemy of the Best is, good."
The time has come to take these words seriously.
Let's make today another supremely creative
and exciting day!