彼は実家が自営業で、次期社長として育てられていた、体育会系の人

 

私は親の海外赴任から幼少期を海外で過ごし、日本人ではあったけど、一般的な日本人女性の価値観が馴染まない部分も多かった

海外にいた時期に家族で過ごした時間も長かったから、家族の距離も近かった

 

家族に対する考え方

困難な状況に置かれた時の対応の仕方

困難な状況に周りの人が置かれた時の反応の仕方

パートナーに求めること

 

大事なことが沢山食い違った

 

 

His family had a business and he was raised since his early years to eventually take after his father. 

Someone who was trained as a sportsman, to be tough and resistant in stressful circumstances

 

On the other hand, I spent my childhood outside of Japan due to my father’s posting abroad. Although I was Japanese, there were many things about me that didn’t fit the values ​​of a typical Japanese girl

My family was close because we only had each other while we were living in a foreign environment

 

So many fundamental values we cannot argue were different

 

What family meant

 How we respond to difficult situations

 How we react when the other half is in a difficult situation

 What “being a partner” meant

 

So many. So many important values were so different