長男は大学1年生で留年をしたんです。
勉強を全くしていなかったようで。
理系なので必修がたくさんあり、たくさん落としたから留年。
そしてもう一度1年生を繰り返した。
ちょうどコロナ禍で授業は全てオンライン。
同級生に知り合いもできないから一人で勉強したようで、成績も結構上がって進級。
私としては非常に残念だったけど、本人は必要な失敗だと思っているらしい。
人生がうまくいきすぎてたんだそうで。
中学受験はたいして勉強せずに第一志望に奇跡の合格。
大学は内部進学で希望の学部学科に進学。
一人で何かを乗り越えたことがなかったのか、留年して自分で進級できたことは自信につながったんだそう。
まぁそうなのかもしれないな。
私は大学受験で第一志望しか受けずに浪人したんだけど、あれも親には申し訳ないが必要な失敗だった。
長男のように自分で何かを成し遂げたことがなかったんだと思う。
これで成長してくれることを祈るばかり。
池江璃花子選手と同学年の長男。
彼女は本当にすごくて、故に試練も半端ないけど、それさえも乗り越えちゃう。
すごいなー。
My first son was retained at the end of the first grade at university.
It was because he didn’t study at all.
He lost many subjects even through he is a stem student and had many required subjects.
Then he was on the first grade again.
All of his classes were conducted online due to Covid-19.
He couldn’t have any new friend on the same grade and he studied alone seriously.
Then he god better scores and he was promoted to the second grade.
I was very sorry about it but he thinks it was needed for his life because his life had been going to well.
He succeeded in passing the exams to get into junior high school which he wanted to enter the most without great efforts luckily.
He got into the division of university which he wanted to enter without exams.
He hadn’t have any experience to overcome something by himself and he is confident because he was promoted alone.
I can understand him.
I failed to pass the exams to get into university in the first year because I applied to only one university which I wanted to enter the most.
I was sorry for my parents but it was needed for me as well.
I didn’t also have any experience to overcome something alone.
I wish his growth from the experience.
He is on the same grade as Ms. Rikako Ikee who is a famous swimmer and was selected to be an Olympic player from Japan even though she recovered from serious illness.
She is super and therefore her difficulty is much bigger than any others’ but she has overcome it.
How strong she is!