Immediate results
Humans have unrealistic expectations of other humans.
When one 'declares' a change, we think one has the ability to change overnight.
So we condemn or poke fun at one when one fails to be the change he/she has declared to be.
No one has the ability to change overnight, no matter how strong his desire to change is.
Habits pulls back the progress of change, because habits put us on auto-pilot.
By the time we realise it, we've done it.
So a huge note to self: don't expect others to change immediately, don't beat yourself up when you don't do it.
When one 'declares' a change, we think one has the ability to change overnight.
So we condemn or poke fun at one when one fails to be the change he/she has declared to be.
No one has the ability to change overnight, no matter how strong his desire to change is.
Habits pulls back the progress of change, because habits put us on auto-pilot.
By the time we realise it, we've done it.
So a huge note to self: don't expect others to change immediately, don't beat yourself up when you don't do it.