Early morning I made salad!

I gradually accept the idea that life will be so much better if we stop self-victimizing.
Blame this, blame that, and see ourselves as victims in the entire situation.
Self-victimizing is prolly the reason why I suck at friendship, and any other situations that I feel energy-draining and unpleasant.
We think we are the victims and thus, we look at the situation in all sorts of negativity.
But truth be told, we arent. We chose to be victims, and we always choose not to.

It's true, either be miserable or be motivated.
The choice is not in your hands, it's in your mind.