子供の門限…
あぁ、なんて難しい話なの…
息子の至恩は十代でもう大きくなったと思っていた…
年齢のわりには大人っぽくて、でも今週やっと15才になるの…
彼は門限が早いと思ってたみたい…私は平日は夜10時に決めてるわ…
私はとての厳しい家庭に育ったの…父はドイツ人で母はスー族(インディアン部族)…
もし夕飯を食べたければ、平日6時までに帰らなきゃいけないし…デートなんて許されない…
16才までは男の子が家にくるなんてありえなかったし…18才までは門限が11時だったわ…
自分に子供が出来たとき、彼らの意見を尊重し、ある程度は希望を聞いてあげようと決めたわ…
でもね、15才の子どもにとっては、10時が適当だと思うのよ…
10時半にするべきかなぁ…
みんなどう思う
みんなの意見を聞かせて…
Curfew for a teenager....
OH what a difficult subject....
Zion, my son is a teenager who thinks he is all grown up.....
He is very mature for his age but he only turned 15 this week....
He thinks the curfew is way to early....I set it at 10:00 p.m. on weekdays..
I was brought up in a very strict household... My father being German and my mother Sioux...
I was to be home no later than 6:00 p.m. on weekdays if I wanted to eat dinner...AND not allowed to date
until I was 16 and that was only if the boy wanted to come over to my house not out...And until I was 18 years old the curfew was 11 p.m.
When I had children I decided to take their opinions and respect their wishes to some degree...
BUT I feel that 10:00 p.m. is a good curfew for a 15 year old.....
Should I make it 10:30 p.m.??
What do you guys think??
I would love your advice....
xoxo
Caiya
あぁ、なんて難しい話なの…
息子の至恩は十代でもう大きくなったと思っていた…
年齢のわりには大人っぽくて、でも今週やっと15才になるの…
彼は門限が早いと思ってたみたい…私は平日は夜10時に決めてるわ…
私はとての厳しい家庭に育ったの…父はドイツ人で母はスー族(インディアン部族)…
もし夕飯を食べたければ、平日6時までに帰らなきゃいけないし…デートなんて許されない…
16才までは男の子が家にくるなんてありえなかったし…18才までは門限が11時だったわ…
自分に子供が出来たとき、彼らの意見を尊重し、ある程度は希望を聞いてあげようと決めたわ…
でもね、15才の子どもにとっては、10時が適当だと思うのよ…
10時半にするべきかなぁ…
みんなどう思う
みんなの意見を聞かせて…
Curfew for a teenager....
OH what a difficult subject....
Zion, my son is a teenager who thinks he is all grown up.....
He is very mature for his age but he only turned 15 this week....
He thinks the curfew is way to early....I set it at 10:00 p.m. on weekdays..
I was brought up in a very strict household... My father being German and my mother Sioux...
I was to be home no later than 6:00 p.m. on weekdays if I wanted to eat dinner...AND not allowed to date
until I was 16 and that was only if the boy wanted to come over to my house not out...And until I was 18 years old the curfew was 11 p.m.
When I had children I decided to take their opinions and respect their wishes to some degree...
BUT I feel that 10:00 p.m. is a good curfew for a 15 year old.....
Should I make it 10:30 p.m.??
What do you guys think??
I would love your advice....
xoxo
Caiya