Hi dear,
How are you ?
I cannot keep my thought from wandering to you. I want to know everything about you. Your favorite color, your favorite beach, your favorite song, your favorite drink, your favorite... I want to see you, to touch you, to kiss you, so that I know you are real.
Thought I would share my "top ten" list. This is a list of qualities I came up with to measure a woman. They are a list of values I want in my partner. Here goes:
1. Freedom - I need someone that enjoys freedom, that has interests of their own and allows freedom in another.
2. Compassion/Kindness - The Dalia Lama says that compassion is the greatest power. So true..
3. Spontaneity - I love being spur of the moment, living in the moment. Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, and today a gift. That's why they call it the present.
4. Responsibility/Stability - I need to rely on the other person to be there for me and to have our life together.
5. Healthy - Body, mind and spirit.
6. Humorous - If you cannot find the humor in life, then what is the point?
7. Spirituality - My partner must think on a different level and I am not talking about religion.
8. Intelligence - Must I say more?
9. Passionate - I love a woman that is passionate about life, about the little things, about love.
10. Respectful - One must show respect for their partner.
I came up with this over 10 years ago. I see so much of these qualities in you and want to know if you agree.
With Love,
Alan Gorski
アラン、メールありがとう。あなたは女性にとても高い理想を持っているのね。あなたは完璧な女性を求めているの？ 怖いわ、私がその理想的な基準を満たさなかったらどうするのかしら。前に友達と電話していたらあなたは怒ったから。あなたの基準を私が満たさないとあなが怒るかと思うと怖いわ。
Hello dear,
How are you ?
It was really nice receiving your emails, yes am so serious in getting to know you better and talk more, I thought it would be helpful if I shared what some of my interests are and what some of my passions are and also what my likes and dislikes are. This will give you an idea about the man you are communicating with and probably spend the rest of your life with..... I favorite color is black and I see we have that in common, I like seafood such as shrimps, lobster Smile I also like to drink water and wine.
Interests: I tend to have a variety of interests, such as the following: I enjoy the outdoors. I love spending time by the water (lakes and oceans) as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace. I too enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water (romantic). I enjoy walking, swimming, anything with outdoors involvement and playing like a kid when am with my partner. A swing is always lots of fun especially if someone is pushing you. I have a playful spirit. I enjoy quality time spent with my son. I enjoy a good movie, all types of music, reading, some sports, different types of foods. I am open to trying new things. The bottom line is I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.
Passions: I have a few passions in my life and I would have to say that I am passionate about being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general), and I really look forward to being passionate and having a passionate intimate relationship with you. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for those that will come into my love life.
Likes: I like many things as I am open minded and flexible person. Generally, I like everything providing that there is no dislikes of mine infringing on the likes. Some of my favorite food (restaurants) consist of Chinese, Mexican, Italian with Jamaican sauce and rice being my favorite. I love red licorice and my favorite flowers are carnations. I do enjoy traveling and thanks to my job. I would like to see castles close up some day and stay in a beautiful hotel close to the sea.
Dislikes: There is not a whole lot that I dislike, however; the things that I do dislike seem to be based on values and character, allow me to explain. There are certain things that I have no interest in, however; these are the things that I clearly dislike or choose not to tolerate are: disrespect, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, lying, cheating, mean spitefulness, being judgmental, callousness, harsh words, hurtful acts, intrusting people, displaced anger, unfairness, injustice, selfishness, being inconsiderate, blaming, not taking responsibility, self-contentedness, rigidity and anything else that can cause damage or be damaging to another human being.
I also do not like comparison as we all have different character and qualities, I am saying this because I don't find it pleasing whenever you try to compare me with your ex husband. We all have past experience and I think we should move on from it because you won't like it when I try to compare you to my late wife.
Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best.
I trust that you are having a lovely day. I would love to hear from you and if there is anything else you would love to know or share about likes, dislikes, passions, and interests, do not hold back, am glad we are having this conversation.
You are in my thoughts,
Alan Gorski
私はロマンチックな人間ではないわ。私はいつも事実を見たい、夢とか甘いものじゃなくてね。だから私はあなたが私を傷つけないという証拠をみたいの。言葉じゃなくて。前の夫のせいでPTSDがあるの。あなたはそれを理解すべきよ。あなたは前夫と比較されるのが嫌だと言うけれど、あなたが彼と同じようなことを言うと、彼のことを思い出して怖くなる。わかった？
あなたが亡くなった奥さんと私を比べるのはかまわないわ。死んだ人の思い出はとても美しいものよ、それを拭い去ることはできない。わたしを傷つけないなら、あなたが彼女と私を比べてもかまわないから。
