LIFE WILL GO ON...
Dearest 知花、
Darling sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear that you are hurting.
辛いですって言われると、
ユリも辛いです。
I feel you...
and I'm pretty sure many others who read your post do too.
IVE BEEN THERE. YOU AREN'T ALONE.
ユリーカもI have experienced itだしちょっと引きずったり。。。
Breakups hurt...
full of regret, pain and sorrow,
IFs, BUTs, MAYBEs,
and the more serious and special the relationship was,
the harder it is to let go....
でもね、
LOVE IS LIKE A BUTTERFLY.
LET it GO ONCE, and if it COMES BACK TO YOU,
then IT'S MEANT TO BE.
ＮＡＴＵＲＥに任せるしかない。って考えたら、
ちょっとは楽になれるかも？
ユリーカはそうしてきた。
全部考え方、
ＭＥＮＴＡＬＩＴＹ，
で前へ進めると思うの。
Ｉ ＡＭ ＯＰＴＩＭＩＳＴＩＣだけど同時にREALISTIC．
諦めなきゃいけないことは、
悲しくて悔しくて嫌でも、
時間かけてでもイイから、
Ｉ FACE IT and ACCEPT IT.
DIGEST IT. LET IT GO.
AND THEN MOVE ON.
ほんとを言うとやっぱSOMETIMES I DO LOOK BACK,
でもI KEEP ON WALKING.
EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
ってユリーカは信じてるの。
Ｉ BELIEVE IN FATE。
言い訳かも知れないけど、
ＬＩＦＥ is full of ワケワカラナイ
suprises and mysteries,
ビックリする
uncontrollable happenings and coincidences,
SOME (which seem) GOOD & BAD,
すべてをＣＯＮＴＲＯＬできる人生は無理。
もうＤＥＳＴＩＮＹに任せたほうがある意味
自由な生き方をできると思うの。
あとね、
RELATIONSHIPがWORKOUTしなかったからと言って、
好きだった人をけして嫌いになったりは絶対しないの。
人間として好きなまま。
嫌いになった方がＭＯＶＥ ＯＮできそうにも思えるけど、
BITTER FEELINGSを心に残したまますごすのって
逆に辛いと思う。
ALWAYS STAY HONEST & TRUTHFUL TO YOUR HEART.
ほんとに仲良かったからこそ、
別れて全然会わなくなっても、
ＮＥＷ ＰＡＲＴＮＥＲがもしできたとしても、
全然ＡＫＷＡＲＤＮＥＳＳ感じないまま、
ADVICEだったりHELP&SUPPORTを求め合える、
逆に自分がすごい素直でいられる、
ALMOST like a RELATIVEな存在でいられたらBESTよね。
今はそれがＩＭＰＯＳＳＩＢＬＥに感じても、
ＥＮＯＵＧＨ時間が過ぎれば、
IT IS POSSIBLE. BELIEVE ME!!
だからユリーカ経験の結果、
出会いとかＲＥＬＡＴＩＯＮＳＨＩＰＳ
ってほんと素晴らしいし、
IT'S WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND、
ってI GENUINELY BELIEVEなの.
You once really cared for eachotherなら、
それはMEMORYとしてＳＡＣＲＥＤだし
ＲＥＳＰＥＣＴするべきだと思います。
ただ今一緒にいるべく人ではない。っていう現実なら
ＦＡＣＥ ＩＴ， ＵＮＤＥＲＳＴＡＮＤ ＩＴ，
ａｎｄ ＡＣＣＥＰＴ ＩＴ．
だから悲しい別れをＯＶＥＲＣＯＭＥするにはまず、
MOVE ON and TRY TO SMILE.
CONTINUE with YOUR life...
that's what your meant to do.
I KNOWWWW,
There are and will always be MAYBEs...
MAYBE in the FUTURE?? MAYBE he is your soulmate??
MAYBE he will change? Maybe you will change?
Maybe circumstances will change??
MAYBE it's a mistake?? maybe maybe maybe...
でもall these MAYBESはNECESSARYなの、
in helping you along your path of FINDING OUT WHO YOU ARE,
and WHERE YOU ARE GOING,
and WHAT YOU REALLY WANT...
ＴＩＭＥ ＷＩＬＬ ＴＥＬＬ．
HAVE FAITH & KNOW YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.
I know it's not easy and it may take some time for the wound to heal,
but hun, AFTER you've cried your heart out
(which helps- it'll make you feel more human),
try to focus on YOURSELF:
EAT GOOD FOODS,
GO OUT and SEE the ARTS,
STUDY&LEARN,
EXERCISE,
FEEL NATURE,
GET LOTS OF SLEEP,
SPEND PLENTY of ALONE TIME,
as well as BONDING TIME with the CARING PEOPLE in your life,
REFLECT,
PAMPER YOURSELF...
and then have the courage to GO OUT and BE A BETTER YOU
I really do hope you cheer up and that you find the will to believe.
Be humble, positive and grateful to know that you are going to be alright.
Be caring, understanding, and supportive to the needy around you.
ALL IN ALL,
REALIZE THAT YOU ARE A STRONGER PERSON THROUGH THIS.
With
,
Yureeka