So do I recommend to meet a guy for girls who wanna have a relationship with a forign guy at language exchange? Because this is how I met with my future husband?
The answer is NO.
This is a kind of dengerous gambling. I had many other bad experiences.
If you're easy to get your heart broken, and it affects your real life?
Please don't do that.
If you are looking for a guy who speaks NOT English, I recommend it for sure. Because it's something that you can barely meet the chance in Japan.
So you each other, might be able to appreciate the oppotunity and treat each other good.
Also, you can pick which level of Japanese he has, you can designate which age range, you can pick wcity he is in now as well on this website.
I think it's worth it.
But language exchange is.... you can imagine what kind of people who use dating site to meet a 異性.←多分この単語がひっかかってblogが見られなくなりました。性別という意味の言葉でひっかかるって…。
I've never done that in Japanese one, so I don't really know, but I think what we do isn't that far.
And.....a guy who speaks fluent both in English and Japanese?
They are already popular where they work if he is at least more than normal in any way.
There are plenty of Japanese girls who is looking for it.
My BF showed me how many messages from Japanese girls he got.
It was plenty. Like it's impossible to meet all of them.
I sent messages from me, to whom I picked 27 to 35 years old one (Too young is always too immature for me) who can have better English than me and sent messages to them.
Women, never replied to me.
I don't know, they just wanted to have some Japanese guys or there's something wrong with my message or something.
Most of the guys did.
A few guys approached me from them as well.
I met almost all of them who replied or asked to meet.
Some of them, end up by just texting, who I felt he's not worth to meet.
But after all that things (probably I met like 10 or even more), who I still wanted to hang out with, was just only the guy who I'm getting married.
The others, even if they says they grown up in the United States or some English speaking countries, it was some of them though, I found their English was not what I could understand.
This is also because of my poor listening skill, their English have too strong accent to understand for me.
For native English speakers, yes they can, but for me, no.....
I got full score of listening section in TOEIC test though....
I never understood some Irish or Scotish English, also never get used to Spanish, Indian, Vietnamise, or some sorts of strong accent which is hard for Japanese.
I don't know, I don't hate any nationality though, guys who has particular culture or something, they and I, don't
seem to be the perfect combination.....
They don't see me, and I don't see them.
Because of their idea of culture, gender, education, alcohol, marriage, religion, all of them are too different and I can't or don't want to accept. (accent as well....)
Also, the one from all over the world, even if I had a good impression at the beginning, but after they got drunk, they get totally.......**** up.
Next day, they apologized to
me seriously, but..... I don't feel to see them never again.
Well, my BF wasn't an exception actually though, I'm gonna write about it some other day.
I think you will also see why they need to register your profile on this website.
Some of them, I could see easily why they couldn't find any language exchange partner in their real life.
But let's say if you wanna have a forein BF and go to HUB bar, the possibilty to meet the one is probably lower than language exchange.
Doesn't matter you look gorgeous or not. Everybody has different sense somebody likes everyone:P
You may sometimes need to forgive a part of them though. If you can take that risk, go for it.
There's no pain no gain.
BUT still, seriously you need to get ready for getting hurt by many mindless words even if it's not something what you deserve at all though.
English has many bad words to make someone hurt, and some gets really agressive than us when they get drunk.
(I mean not everyone....)
If you meet somewhere like HUB, you'll never get hurt or at least you can realize he's not worth it and avoid. But easy to forget or to be forgtten and barely try to make another date.
