Well-Being, I think it is what we want in our life mostly.
But at least I don’t know the exact steps to reach “Well-Being” even after I spent 40 years of my life.
So I started self-studying about factors related to Well-Being and mechanism to reach it.
This article is based on a following book.
*Maeno, T.(2013). Shiawase no mekanizumu [Mechanism of Well-Being]. Tokyo: KodanSha Gendai ShinSho.
There are 2 factor groups which lead to well-being.
Positional Goods
- Property and possessions
- Easily quantified and compared to others
- Sense of well-being does NOT last long
Seeking only “Positional Goods” is called “Focusing Illusion”.
It is like drinking “Salt-Water” which makes people more thirsty contrary to purpose.
e.g. Annual income, Position, Educational background, House, Car and Reputation etc.
Non-Positional Goods
- Status of mind
- Not Easily quantified and compared to others
- Sense of well-being lasts long
e.g. Peace of mind, Confidence, Freedom, Love and health etc
It is like “Clear Stream” that makes people comfortable and peaceful.
Positional Goods is important for living a life but Non-Positional Goods directly contribute to “Well-Being” which last long.
There are 4 factors of Non-Positional Goods related to Well-Being mostly.
- Be Optimistic (Nantokanaru Inshi)
- Be Myself (Anatarashiku Inshi)
- Be Ambitious (Yattemiyou Inshi)
- Be Thankful (Arigatou Inshi)
In this site, I would like to publish my own thought about how to reach these 4 states and plus one: body condition.
※This figure is not quoted from the book*.
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