ふと気づくと
毎日が選択の連続で 
食べるもの、寝る時間、着る服 全てを自らが選んで生きている
それらは自由なはずで 
例えば会社の規定だったり、親の意見だったり、
夫の好みであったり、、、
自分で選んでいるのは確かだけれども、その決断に至る前に様々なことを考慮して、その選択をチョイスすることもしばしば
結局自分ではなく誰かのために選んでいることも多い
でも、本当に大事なのは自分の気持ち
誰かのためであっても、それを心から喜びとして選べなければそれは意味がない。
他人のために生きる人生になってしまう。
自らが納得して進んで選べる選択を日々、小さなことから行うべきでそしてそれは身近な誰かにとっても同じこと
他人に自分の選択を強要してはならないのだ
そして人に認められることを目的にせず、自分の選択を自身で認めて喜べる、そんな心の状態は幸せのカタチの一つなのではないだろうか。
日々の選択を自分のために... それが大きな線になると信じて
I suddenly realise that
Every day is a series of choices.
The food we eat, the bed we sleep in, the clothes we wear, everything we choose to live in.
These choices are supposed to be free.
They are not free, but they are the choices of the company, of our parents, of our husbands, of our own tastes, of our own opinions,
I am sure that I am making my own choices, but I take into account the various things I have to do before I can make that decision,
Although we make our own choices, we often consider a number of things before we make a decision.
In the end, you are often making a choice for someone else, not for yourself.
But what really matters is how I feel.
Even if it is for someone else, if you don't choose it as a sincere pleasure, it is meaningless.
It becomes a life lived for others.
We should make choices every day, even small ones, that we are happy with and that we can willingly choose, and this is the same for someone close to us.
We should not force our choices on others.
And a state of mind where you can recognise your own choices and be happy with them, without aiming to be recognised by others, is one of the forms of happiness.
Making daily choices for yourself... Believe that it will become a big line.