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春分の日が過ぎたと思ったらもう春の陽気ですね！！
毎年桜の開花が早まっていたここ数年でしたが、今年の桜は入学式に満開を迎えられそうで
個人的にとっても嬉しいです
自分の周りで入学式を迎える人はいないのですが、入学式といえば満開の桜を思い浮かべるので
年々散ったあとの桜と入学式を見ると悲しい気持ちになっていました
温暖化でどんどん気温が上昇していますが、身の回りでできることから始めて少しでも四季を感じられる地球を大事にしていきたいと思う今日この頃です
私は「こうだ！！」と思ったらすぐ固執してしまうクセがあります
XXさんの考え方はきっとこういう考えであろう、、であったり、自分が大事にしていることだったり、一度大事だ！と思ったら一番になってしまうことも
でも最近その固執する部分が邪魔でものすごく自分に負荷がかかっていることに気づきました。。
自分の想像力のままに判断して勝手に作った脳内で、相手を酷い人だ、、とかなぜこの大事な事象が理解できないのだろう？とか
怒りを作り出していたのです。。
感情に支配されるのは本当に疲れますし、物事を客観的に分析する上で感情というのは本当に不要だなと思います
特に女性は感情部分が豊かであると言われていますが、負の側面に自分のくせがかけ合わさって自分の良くない部分だなと最近になってようやく気づけました。。
どんな人も何かの理由の末の結論を持っているだろうし、あるいは行動の結果があるはずでその事実や過程を素直に耳を傾けることができればもっと世界は広がるのだ、、と思えるように
言うのは容易いですが、少しずつ行動に移して体現していきたいと思います。
まずは自分が何にこだわっているのかをよく観察することが大事なんだなと思います
別の側面の話をしますと、片思いなんかもそうかもしれないですね...
相手がどう思っているのか？？？みたいなことに固執してしまうと、進むものも進まないですよね..
相手の良いところ・共感できるところを素直に分析して、好きなら好きって
思いを素直に伝えられるとどんなに楽か
It's been a long time since I've blogged...
The spring equinox has just passed, and it is already springtime!
The cherry blossoms have been blooming earlier every year for the past few years, but it looks like this year's blossoms will be in full bloom by the time of the entrance ceremony.
I am personally very happy!
I don't know anyone around me who will be celebrating the entrance ceremony, but when I think of the entrance ceremony, I think of cherry blossoms in full bloom.
I used to feel sad when I saw cherry blossoms and entrance ceremony after they had fallen year after year.
The temperature is rising rapidly due to global warming, but I would like to start with what I can do around me and cherish the earth where I can feel the four seasons as much as possible.
I am a cusseuse who is always sticking to the “this is the way! I have a habit of sticking to it as soon as I think “This is the way!
I am sure that Mr. XX's way of thinking is this way, or it is what I value, or once I think it is important, it becomes the most important thing! Once I think it's important, it becomes the most important thing.
But recently, I realized that the part of me that adheres to these ideas is getting in the way and putting a lot of pressure on me.
I have been judging others according to my own imagination, making up my own brain and thinking that they are terrible people, or why can't they understand this important event? or “Why can't they understand this important event?
I was creating anger.
It is really tiring to be ruled by emotions, and I think emotions are really unnecessary to analyze things objectively.
It is said that women in particular are rich in the emotional part, but I have only recently realized that the negative aspects combined with my own habits are not good for me.
Every person will have a conclusion at the end of some reason, or a result of some action, and if we can honestly listen to the facts and the process, the world will expand more, to be able to think
It is easy to say, but I would like to embody this in action little by little.
Talking about another aspect, it might be the same with unrequited love...
What does the other person think of you? If you are fixated on things like that, you won't be able to make progress...
It would be much easier if you could honestly analyze what you like about the other person and what you can relate to, and if you like them, you can honestly tell them how much you like them.