なぜ恋愛結婚の離婚率が高いか

I prefer arrange marriage. It's so much better because both bride and groom gets so much love from both family. The parents always choose the best for their daughter and son. So it's like close to perfect in financial and family matters. Love towards spouse comes gradually.

In love marriage there is so much problem. Both the families don't like each other so you don't get love and affection that needs to bond in a marriage. Eventually all the family and society problems affects your marriage.

In love marriage if the love is gone there is nothing left. We usually fall in love at very young age and basically have to idea about the reality of life.

Divorce rate in love marriage is very high. Arrange marriage is a good choice for long run. So yes I prefer arrange marriage.

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?

I asked this question to my best friend and she said arranged marriage because she believes that in arrange marriage its like we fall in love with the person after marriage and it feels good. Everything is new and also the girl is liked by the whole family of the boy (that's why they chose her.)
But personally, i prefer love marriage because in love marriage, we already know the person, their liking, disliking and everything and we are loved by the person so much (that's why we got married.)
So, what do you prefer and why?
Please give reason and no rude comments please. :) 　という質問に対して。

アメリカだから恋愛結婚至上主義かと思っていたら三分の二がお見合い結婚が良い、という結果でしたよ。意外だったなー。

Love is great but it is not enough in marriage, you need to be a team / partnership.

だそうです。いや、です。

この人は
I love my husband very much but he is abusive to me and I don't know what will happen.だそうです。

Just flip coin, if its "HEADS" go for Love Marriage and if its "TAILS" go for Arranged Marriage.....:)
という答えもありました。

男にとって結婚は墓場だからどっちでも同じか。

なお、現在の日本では恋愛結婚至上主義で、結婚した人の三割が離婚するそうです。

頭の中が

でなくなると
In love marriage if the love is gone there is nothing left.　だからか。トホホ。

(頭の中がお花畑状態でなくなるのは結構早いそうですよ。）