1) Just be yourself
2) Never pretend to be someone or something that you are not
3) Be a gentleman when you need to be one.
4) Girls are like fishes, you need to know when to reel her in & when to let loose the line abit
5) Be nice to her, call her Princess whenever possible. Gals like to be pampered.
6) Do little things that will touch her, like folding little stars
7) Remember all the anniversaries, first date, first kiss, B'day.
8) Surprised her once awhile with a banquet of flowers. Not only on V day can give flowers, do it out of the blue or when she is unhappy beside it’s cheaper than V-day.
9) Make sure that the flowers are delivered to her sch/office. Girls like to "show off" that they got admirers to their friends/colleagues
10) When giving presents, make sure its something unique, not the usual stuff. Something like a Jig saw puzzle of a pic of you & her, or draw a portrait of her using pencil.
11) Make sure yr HP's wallpaper pic of her even thought you got other gals pics inside.
12) Make an effort to send her to work or from work to home.
13) Dates need not be outdoor, can buy a 5000 pieces jig saw and fix it up together and when finished frame it up.
14) Offer to carry her shopping bags & open doors for her especially car's door
15) Be able to offer matured and suitable solutions to her problems. Gals like guys to be initiative & sensitive.
16) Protect her when she is in trouble like a fight or a dispute. Gals loves guys that can give them a sense of security.
17) Be immune to all her wimps, mood changes, etc.
18) Once awhile show your Bad Side like having a chat with a female friend. Let her know that she is not the only one lady friend you have. Gals hate competitions!
19) Communicate with her often and crack jokes. Gals like a joker too!
20) Give her presents like soft toys, key chains, etc during your 1st month anniversary of being together, make sure you do it every month. Gals are particular on anniversaries.
21) Bring her for a nice cozy candlelight dinner once awhile.
22) Show her TLC (tender loving care)
23) Give her 150% attention whenever she wants it. Girls crave for attentions & care.
24) Be persistence in your courtship of her but must know when to continue or when to give up.
25) Take a NO as a NO. Don’t force the issue.
26) Read her body’s language properly.
27) To get into her good book, know her liking. For example if she like bak gua, surprised her with it once awhile
28) Girls are emotional creatures, they will know who is good and not good to her, and she will remember all the good things you do for her.
29) Never ever show your temper or raise your voice in front of her no matter what. Girls like guys to be able to be in control of their emotions.
30) Plan well for a date. If you fail to plan, you planned to fail.
31) Learn from your past mistakes and never repeats them.
32) Never ever bring out your previous quarrels with her into a new quarrel.
33) Never ever compare her to someone else like a previous GF and especially to another gal. Gals are jealous creatures
34) Never ever leave any tell tale signs of your trysts with other gals
35) Pay for any dates especially those first couple of dates. You don’t want her to think that you are stingy would you?
36) In any decision making, although it’s her decision, make it as “our” decision. This is to show her your support for her publicly even if you don’t agree to it. Talk to her privately and start the discussion with “Hey! Your decision is good but may I suggest this instead, perhaps we can combine our ideas into one that is better than the one each of us had proposed.”
37) Whisper sweet nothings into her ears like “I am the Earth and you’re my Sun, without you, my World will be both a cold and dark place”, “You are like salt to me, you may asked me why salt, its because without you in my life, my life would be tasteless” – try cooking dishes without salt, you will understand it better.
38) Remind her that you loved her once awhile. Gals like assurance.
39) Support her emotionally or physically or even financially (If you have the means) when she needs them.
40) Never place your friends above her. Gals get jealous over nothing easily
41) Be totally honest to her about your whereabouts. Eventually the truth will surface. You need another 100 lies to cover up the first lie. Gals hates liars.
42) Give her nice little surprises once awhile. Hide something sweet for her to find in your room/house when she is visiting. Gals like pleasant surprises & hate unpleasant surprises.
43) Never mentioned your EX in your quarrels with her. Gals hate comparison.
44) Accompanied her to the doctor when she is not feeling well; remind her to take her medication when the time comes. Buy or brew for her herbal teas when her throat is bad. This showed your care & concern for her.
45) Never stare at other gals even if those gals are prettier than the one with you. Its total disrespect for her.
46) Be patience in your wait for her on dates as gals need longer time to dress up and for make up.
47) Never be more than 10 minutes late for your dates, it does not reflect good on you in time management.
48) Never ever say one thing but do the opposite, gals are observant creatures.
49) Never ever take her for granted. Cherish and treasure her as what she is. Accept both her good and bad points.
50) Never ever treat her as a sex toy. Treat her as an equal human being. Treat her the way you want her to treat you back.