5月13日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【サツキ】
花ことばは【几帳面】です(^^♪
毎日の入出金は几帳面に書いておこう！とかなりませんか
そうは思っていても、なかなかねぇ・・・とかって人もいますか
貴重面と言うけど、いろいろありますね
お婆は仕事上の事務は几帳面だったけれど、それ以外は几帳面じゃなかったなぁ
仕事上ではこの部分は几帳面、他の部分はまるっきりおおざっぱ
いいじゃない。それでもこの書類だけはきちんとやっているから、これをみたら、分かるようにしてるし・・・なんて言い訳してた～～
あなたはどう
全てにおいて、几帳面だったら、本人はいいけれど周囲は大変だと思うの
だとしたら、本人さんはそのままで周囲の人には優しさをもって見守ってあげてほしいな
そしたら全員が幸せになると思わない
反対に、あなたの周りが全員おおざっぱだったら、耐えられないかな
でもね、生きている以上はどこかで息を抜かないと、いきていけないものよ
あんまりおおざっぱでゴミ屋敷になる人だっているけれど、そこまでおおざっぱになったら人の迷惑になる
だからほどほどね
世の中が全員ほどほどだったら、住みやすくなる！って思っても、実際がそうだったらやっていけないよ
会社では誰かがきちんとしてくれているから、書類も安心できる
安心できない人が作った書類はもう一回見直さないといけないから大変
家ではお母さんが家の中をきちんとしてくれているから、安心できる
お母さんがおおざっぱだったら、お父さん？もしくはあなたがきちんとしているから安心して、「ハンカチはいつものとこ？」と引き出しを開ければいい
かならず、あなたもしくは他の人がきちんと整理してくれているんだと思うと、感謝しない
だから几帳面もおおざっぱも両方あったほうがいいね
両方に感謝しよう
何もない毎日じゃないよ。こんな小さな事さえ、そうなんだぁと思ってしまう
そして、あなたがどちらの立場でも、反対の立場の人に感謝する
ほら、それだけで感謝の一日が始まって、幸せ一点
少しずつ、少しずつ、幸せ一点が積み重なって、あなたの頭上に幸せがいっぱい降り注げ
Happy Birthday, May 13th!
Today's flower is "satsuki," and its meaning is "meticulous" (^^♪)
Let's write down the daily deposits and withdrawals methodically! Don't you think so
Do you think so, but it's not that easy...
There are many ways to keep track of your valuable information.
I was meticulous in my office work, but not in everything else.
I was meticulous in this part of my work, and completely rough in the other parts.
That's fine. But I still made excuses like, "I'm doing this one thing right, so when I see this, I'll know....
How about you
If he is meticulous in everything, he may be fine, but those around him will have a hard time.
If that's the case, I'd like you to keep it that way and be kind to those around you and watch over them.
Then everyone will be happy, don't you think
On the other hand, if everyone around you was rough around the edges, I don't know if I could stand it.
But, as long as you're alive, you have to let off steam somewhere to survive
Some people are so rough that they end up in a garbage dump, but if you get that rough, you'll be a nuisance to others.
So, go easy on yourself.
If everyone in the world were moderate, it would be a better place to live! but if that's the way it really was, we wouldn't be able to do it.
In a company, you can rest assured that someone is doing everything right, so you can rest assured that your documents are in order.
Documents made by people who don't feel secure have to be reviewed once more, which is a lot of work
At home, your mom keeps the house neat and tidy.
If your mother is sketchy, your father? Or you can rest assured that you're neat and tidy, and you can say, "Is my handkerchief where it's always been?" and open the drawer.
Don't you appreciate the fact that you or someone else always keeps things neat and tidy
So it's better to be both precise and sketchy.
Let's appreciate both
Not every day is nothing. Even this little thing makes me think that it is.
And whichever side you're on, thank the person on the other side.
See, that's all it takes to start a day of gratitude, one point of happiness
Little by little, little by little, one point of happiness piles up, and a whole lot of happiness pours down on your head!
