4月28日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【ローズマリー】
花ことばは【想い出】です(^^♪
想い出って、年寄りだけの特権じゃないよね
小学生なら幼稚園の、高校生なら小中学時代の、その時のあなたよりほんのちょっと若い時のあなたの想い出がある
一番、想いでの深かったのは幾つの時代
いっぱいありすぎて、どれとは言えない
哀しみも苦しみも時が解決すると言うけれど、本当ね
時を重ねていくほどに、負の感情は懐かしい想い出になる
え？あなたは懐かしい想い出になってない
よほどの思い入れが続いているのね
じゃ、それを懐かしい想い出に変えてしまおう
今のあなたはどんな状況かな
きっと今は楽しくて幸せなのね
だから過去の古傷が癒えないんじゃないかな
今の幸せなあなたになるために、過去の苦しさ、辛さも必要だったのよ
だからこそ、今がある
人間って出来るなら、苦しいのは嫌だよね
でも、その苦しさを知っているあなただからこそ、あなたに他の人が相談してきたときに、自分の事のように相談に乗れると思う
痛みも分かると思う
苦しい想い出の一コマにあなたの人生があるって良い事ヨ
楽しさしか知らない人は可哀そうだと思うの
だって、耐える事を知らないから、瞬間に絶望を覚えてしまう
でも、苦しい時の想い出があったら、インフルエンザの予防注射のように、壁を乗り越えていけるわ
一つ一つの想い出を大切に、どんなことも時を重ねて懐かしい想い出になる事で、あなたの人間性に深みが増すわ
何年前の事を今でも思い出すと耐えられない人もいるかもしれない
それだけ深い悲しみは、それだけあなたの人間性を深くする
決して下を向かずに明日に歩きなさい
あなたの未来には幸せが待っているわ
Happy Birthday, April 28th!
Today's flower is Rosemary.
The language of flowers is "remembrance".
Memories aren't just the privilege of old people.
If you're in elementary school, you have memories of kindergarten, if you're in high school, you have memories of elementary and middle school, when you were just a little younger than you were then.
How old were your fondest memories
There are so many, it's hard to say which one
They say that time solves sorrow and pain, but it's true.
The more time passes, the more negative emotions become nostalgic memories
What? You don't have fond memories
You must be very attached to it.
Then let's turn it into a fond memory
What's your situation right now
I bet you're happy and joyful right now.
That's why you can't heal old wounds from the past.
You needed the bitterness and pain of the past to become the happy you you of today!
That's why you are where you are now.
People don't like to suffer, if they can help it.
But because you know that pain, when others come to you for advice, I think you can give it to them as if it were your own.
And I think you understand the pain.
It's a good thing your life is in one of your painful memories.
I feel sorry for people who only know how to have fun.
Because they don't know how to endure, and in the moment, they feel hopeless.
But if you have memories of the hard times, you can get over the wall like a flu shot.
Cherish each and every memory, every thing you do will become a nostalgic memory over time, and it will add depth to your humanity.
Some people may not be able to bear the thought of what happened years ago.
That's how deep the sadness makes you a better person.
Never look down and walk into tomorrow.
Happiness awaits you in your future.
