4月8日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【藤】
花ことばは【恋に酔う】です(^^♪
実はね、お婆は毎日夫との恋に酔ってるのぉ～
寝ても覚めても、「あなた 愛してる・・」ってね
そんな気分になってみたい
羨ましいわぁ
色んな声が聞こえてきそう
さて、あなたの話に戻しましょ
どの恋も始まりがあって、終わりがある
一つの恋が始まって夢中になれるのは３年くらい
３年が頂点で、後は下り坂になってしまう
頂点を、せめて下り坂の途中でもそれ以上は下らないようにするにはどうしたらいいんだろう
世界中のノーベル賞クラスの学者に聞いても、誰にも解決できない難題
だって、始まったばかりの恋は恋人の長所ばかりが見えて、下がり始めた今は短所しか見えてこないもねぇ
一つ浮かんだのは、こちらにも恋人の短所しか見えないように、恋人にもあなたの短所しか見えてないってこと
あなたの短所しか見えてない人が、今でもあなたを愛してくれてるって感謝でしょ
「私の短所ってどんなところ？」とまず、考えてみよう！恋人に直接聞いてみる手もあるわ
次にその短所を手直してみない
手直しは恋人を見直すきっかけにもなるし、もしその恋が駄目でも次の恋を生かすきっかけにもなる
だてに倒れて泣くばかりがあなたじゃないはずよ
なにもかも、全ては明日のあなたの為と思ったら、恋の下り坂でブレーキがかかるかもしれない
何十年も夫婦を続けている人って凄いよね！ あの夫婦は何十回の下り坂を経験して何とかブレーキを掛けてきたんだろう
”恋に酔う”のも、そんな夫婦になれるテストだと思えばいい
下り坂で失敗しても、相手があっての恋だもの、あなただけの責任じゃないわ
恐れずに次の恋で試してみよう
一つずつの恋があなたを素敵なあなたに成長させる
そう想ったら、恋ってもっとキラキラ輝くと思わない
ちなみに、お婆の夫は14年前の今日、天国に逝ってしまったから、想い続けるしかないのぉ～
だから羨ましがっては駄目よ
さぁ、人生勉強の恋に酔うために、今日会う人を男女問わず大切にしよう
どこから恋が降ってくるか分からないものね
誰よりも幸せになってね
April 8th Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is "Wisteria".
The language of flowers is "drunk with love" (^^♪)
The truth is, I'm drunk in love with my husband every day.
Every night she says to herself, "I love you..."
I want to feel like that.
I envy you.
I can hear so many voices.
Now, back to you.
Every love has a beginning and an end.
Did you have one love that you were crazy about for about three years after it started
Three years is the pinnacle, and after that it's all downhill.
What can we do to make the apex, or at least the middle of the descent, not go down any further
A difficult problem that no one can solve, even if you ask Nobel Prize-class scholars around the world.
Because when you are in love, you can only see the pros of your lover, and now that your feelings have started to decline, you can only see the cons.
One thing that comes to mind is that just as we can only see your lover's weaknesses, your lover can only see your weaknesses.
You're thankful that someone who only sees your shortcomings still loves you.
'What are my shortcomings?' And first, let's think about it! You could ask your lover directly.
Next, why don't you fix them
This will give you a chance to re-evaluate your lover, and if that love doesn't work out, it will also give you a chance to make the most of the next one.
You can't just fall down and cry all the time.
If you think that everything and everyone is for you tomorrow, you might brake on the downhill slope of love!
It's amazing how many couples have been together for decades! How many dozens of downhill slopes has that couple experienced and managed to put the brakes on
Think of "getting drunk in love" as a test to see if you can be that kind of couple.
If you fail on the downhill, it's not your fault alone, because you are in love with each other.
Don't be afraid to try it out with the next love!
One love at a time will make you grow up to be a better person.
If you think like that, don't you think your love will shine brighter and brighter
By the way, my husband passed away 14 years ago today, so I can only keep thinking about him.
So don't envy her!
Now, let's cherish the people we meet today, both men and women, so that we can learn about life and get drunk with love
You never know where love will come from!
Be happier than anyone else!