4月3日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【ラナンキュラス】
花ことばは【華やかな魅力】です(^^♪
これを読んでいるあなたはどんな方でしょう
花言葉のように華やかな魅力を持っている人？それともどちらかと言うと引っ込み思案？またはそのどちらでもない
目立ちたくないのに、目立ってしまう人はいますよね？この前哀しい事に亡くなった八代亜紀さんって方は、良く厚化粧だって周りから揶揄されたものです
歌で目立つのなら最高だけど、彼女は美しく、顔形がくっきりしているので、皆と同じような化粧をしても、厚化粧に見られる人でした
本当は化粧が苦手な彼女は、巡業の時はいつも素顔で、ドライバーたちとも気軽に話す人だったから、彼女のフアンになってしまった人が多いと、知り合いのドライバーが言ってました
それを考えたら、彼女はどれだけ歌以外では、目立たない人になりたかっただろうけど、どう見ても美しい人だった
だから、華やかに見えて、皆が羨ましいと思っても、本人は悩んでいるかもしれません
そう言うお婆もそうです
南国出身の人間は顔かたちがはっきりしすぎるので、目立ちたがり屋とか、いじめる人だとか、言われがち
同じ言葉を使っても、大人しそうな人が言うのと、お婆が言うのとでは相手の受け取り方が違う
以前に知り合いの人と出会ったとき、「元気？」と言った言葉が嫌味だったと受け取られ、弁解も通じず、許してもらえなかった
苦しみの３年間だった・・・
お婆は関西弁を使っているつもりでも、バスガイドが長かったせいもあってお婆の話を聞いている人には標準語に聞こえるらしい
問題の「元気？」は後で相手が嫌味を言われたと言うために作った事だと知ったけど・・・
ここ関西では標準語は冷たく取られて、中には悪気がなくても悪く取る人がいるから、出来るだけ人と出会わないのがいいと、反省！
そんなつもりじゃないのに・・・・と悩んでいるあなたもいるんじゃないかしら
皇后さまもそんなところから、病になられたのかも？あれだけ素敵な人なのにね
もし、華やかな魅力を持っている人がいたら、人よりも謙遜に５歩下がってお話しするほうが、あなたの魅力を良い意味で大きくするかもしれません
大人しめの人は、華やかな人を羨ましいと想うかもしれないけれど、ない物ねだりなのかもしれない
どんな人もそれぞれに苦しみや悲しみを持っているんじゃないかしら
どちらにしても、自分の持っている知識や出自や、権威をひけらかす人にならないでね
あなたの魅力は、あなたが素直に、そして謙遜すること
春は、そんなあなたを称賛し、幸せの羽をもった小鳥が、あなたの頭上を飛び回っています
華やかな魅力をもったあなたは、その上に素直な心を覆えば最高の人になる
あなたは幸せの羽に、そっと優しく触れて、世界中で一番幸せにあなたになりますように
Happy Birthday, April 3rd!
Today's flower is 【Ranunculus】.
The language of flowers is "glamorous charm".
What kind of person are you reading this
Are you someone who has a flamboyant charm like the language of flowers? Or are you rather shy? Or neither
There are people who don't want to stand out, but they do, don't they? Aki Yashiro, who sadly passed away recently, was often ridiculed for her thick makeup.
It would be great if she stood out for her singing, but she was beautiful and had a clear face, so even if she wore the same makeup as everyone else, she still looked like a heavy makeup wearer.
She really didn't like to wear makeup, and a driver I knew told me that many people became her fans because she always wore no makeup when she toured and was so easy to talk to the drivers.
When you think about it, how much she would have liked to be someone who didn't stand out, except for her singing, but she was a beautiful person no matter how you looked at her.
So even if she looks gorgeous and everyone is envious of her, she may be troubled by it!
I am the same way.
People from the South tend to be called show-offs or bullies because their facial features are too distinct.
Even if I use the same words, they are received differently when I say them than when someone who looks quiet says them.
When I met someone I knew before, I said, "How are you?" was taken as sarcasm, and my excuses did not go through, and I was not forgiven.
Three years of suffering...
I think I use Kansai dialect, but because I was a bus guide for a long time, it sounds like standard Japanese to the people who listen to me.
The "How are you?" in question was something I later found out the other person had made up as a sarcastic remark...
Here in Kansai, people take the standard Japanese language coldly, and some people take it badly even if they don't mean to!
I guess there are some of you out there who are worried about ・・・・ even though you didn't mean to!
Maybe that's how the Empress became ill? She's such a lovely person.
If someone has a glamorous charm, it may magnify your charm in a positive way if you take five steps back and speak more modestly than others!
People who appear mature may envy those who are glamorous, but it may seem that way because you don't have it!
Every person has their own pain and sorrow, don't they
Either way, don't be someone who flaunts your knowledge, your origins, or your authority.
Your charm is that you are honest and humble.
Spring admires you and little birds with wings of happiness are flying over your head!
You have a gorgeous charm, and if you cover your honest heart with it, you will be the best person in the world!
May you gently and tenderly touch the wings of happiness and become the happiest you in the world!