3月31日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【キンセンカ】
花ことばは【変身、再生】です(^^♪
もし出逢うことがあったら、今度はもっと綺麗な女姓に生まれ変わって逢いたい・・・・
愛していた人から別れを告げられて、蟻地獄のような毎日に想ったこと
男性でも女性でも、見返したい！と地獄に落とした相手を想います
でも、それらの変身、再生は本当は相手への未練なのね
未練はあっていいと思うの
でも、どうせなら相手の心に一生良い思い出で残る未練がいい
まずね、相手がろくでもない人間だったら、どれだけ苦しくても未練は捨てなさい
なぜなら、あなたの幸せの邪魔になるから
次に相手の目に触れるところで未練がましい態度はとらない
だって相手はそんなあなたを見て、もっと嫌気がさすわ
そして思うの。「別れて良かった！」と
あなたは何が悪かったのかを振り返ってごらん
例えば、我が家は金持ちだとか、由緒が古い家だとか、自慢していない
本当に素晴らしい人は相手の資産や財産で選ばないわ
ではあなたとの相性が悪かった
どうしようもない相性の悪い者同士ってあるよね
でも、今が駄目でも、二人で努力して、気づいたらお互いに良い意味の変身・再生を終わらせているかもしれない
それとは反対に、どうする事も出来ずに、遠ざかっていく相手には、あなたは心の中で、深い感謝をするのよ
「あなたのお陰で、私は自分をもっと良い人間に変身・再生することができました。ありがとうございました」と・・・・
変身も再生もあなた次第
例えば外見を手術で変えてその時は良かったとしても、年齢を重ねるにつれて、その整形部分が醜く壊れていくわ
そのたびに大金で整形を重ねたとしても、醜くなる部分はそれ以上に醜くなることを、あなたはテレビなどに映る芸能人を見て、知ってるはずよ
人前に堂々と出て胸を張れる変身や再生は、内面を成長するのが一番！、そしてそれが一番の近道
でもね、整形することで自分に自信をもてるあなたもいるかもしれない
例えば一重瞼を二重瞼にとか、豊胸手術とか、どうしてもしたい時
万が一、整形を公にしても大丈夫！と言えるくらい後悔がないなら、いいと思う
優しい心のあなた、可愛さ満開のあなた、どんな年齢であっても100人が100人とも、それぞれの満開の時期が来ているわ
精神的に変身・再生をして、未来へ歩きだしなさい
それさえあなたの中にあったら、確実にあなたは幸せを手にするわ
優しさ、思いやりが満開のあなたへ
March 31st Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is calendula.
The language of flowers is "transformation, rebirth".
If we ever meet again, this time I want to be reborn as a more beautiful woman's name: ・・・・
What I thought when the person I loved said goodbye to me and I felt like an ant lion's prison every day
When I get my heart broken, I think of the person who put me through hell
But those transformations, those rebirths, are really the unfulfilled feelings for the other person.
I think it's okay to have regrets.
But I think it's better if it's a regret that will remain in your partner's heart as a good memory for the rest of your life.
First of all, if the other person is a jerk, you should throw away your regrets no matter how painful it is.
Because it will get in the way of your happiness.
Next time, don't be uncommitted in front of the other person's eyes.
Because they'll see you like that, and they'll be more disgusted.
And then you think. "I'm glad we broke up!"
Look back and see what you did wrong.
For example, I'm not bragging about how rich my family is or how old my house is.
A truly great person doesn't choose a partner based on wealth or possessions.
Then you're not a good match.
I know there are some incompatibilities between us that we can't help.
But even if it's not working now, we'll both work on it, and when we realize it, we may end up transforming and regenerating each other for the better.
On the contrary, to the other side, to the one you can't help but move away from, you thank them, in your heart, with the deepest gratitude.
You say, "You have helped me transform and rebuild myself into a better person. Thank you." ・・・・
Transformation and regeneration are up to you.
For example, if you have surgery to change your appearance, and it looks good at the time, but as you get older, those plastic parts are going to get uglier and broken.
You know from watching celebrities on TV, for example, that the parts that become ugly become even uglier, even if you spend a lot of money on plastic surgery every time you get a new one.
The best way to transform and revitalize yourself to be able to stand proudly in front of others is to grow on the inside! And that's the best way!
But you may be one of those people who can gain confidence in yourself by getting plastic surgery!
For example, when you want to change a single eyelid to a double eyelid or to have a breast augmentation....
If you don't have any regrets, you can say "I'm okay with it!
You, gentle heart, full of cuteness, no matter what age you are, all 100 of you are in your own full bloom!
Do a mental makeover/rebirth and walk into the future!
If only you have it in you, you will be happy for sure!
Kindness and compassion are in full bloom in you!