3月29日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【イカリソウ】
花ことばは【束縛】です(^^♪
お婆は若い時は恋人に束縛されるのが好きだった
生まれが鹿児島だから、男性に尽くす良い女に憧れた
そりゃ尽くしたわよ～～長続きはしなかったけど
あなたはどう？尽くす人？尽くされる人
知ってる？昔の女性は頭良かったのよ
平安時代でも女性は政治にもどんどん口出して、男を従えた
男尊女卑って江戸時代から始まったから、歴史は浅いの
でね、賢い女性はきっと思ったのよ。
男なんて単純だから、尽くしてる振りして、裏で上手く操縦しよっ
それからは「あなたのお陰で」言葉巧みに男性の心を持ち上げたの
「あなたは素晴らしい！」のひと言が嬉しくて、男性は一生懸命頑張る
女性はひたすら陰から男性を支える
だって表に出たら、危ない事多いでしょ
そんなの怖いし、嫌だもの
だから昔の偉い人の奥様の写真見てごらん
目の奥に賢さを隠してるから
今、それで生きていくには難しい・・・・
今は賢い男性が少なくて、前に出る女性が多くなったもんね
表裏のどちらでもいいわ。賢いあなたは考えるの
どっちの立場があなたにとって、幸せなのか
まず一番はあなたの精神的な利益
そして、どうしたら幸せが長く継続できるか
いかにあなたが無理せず生きていけるか
残念ながら、今メディアに出ている女性は賢くないから馬鹿にされる
”賢い”は生きていく上の知識と知恵を持っている女性、あなたの事ヨ
お婆だったら
いつでも独立出来る資格を身につける
なんだかんだ言っても男性社会の現在、年齢その他で就職も難しい
だったら、少ないお金で一人で独立出来る商売を考えるわ
お婆はもうその方向で、半年の期間で準備しているもの
出来ない～～はあなたの人生にはないわ
あるのよ。それを探し出そう
逃げないで、未来を拓くのよ
自分で自分の人生を閉じずに、拓きなさい
そこにあなたの幸せが躍ってるわ
Happy Birthday, March 29th!.
Today's flower is "ikarizo" and its language is "shackles" (^^♪♪)
When I was young, I liked to be bound by my lover.
I was born in Kagoshima, so I longed to be a good woman who was devoted to her man.
Of course I was devoted to him - it didn't last long.
What about you? Are you a devoted person? A person who is devoted.
You know what? Women used to be smart.
Even in the Heian period, women were more and more involved in politics and subjugated the men.
The history of male domination of women started in the Edo period (1603-1867), so it is a short history.
So, smart women thought about what to do.
Men are simple, so I'll pretend to be devoted to you, but I'll maneuver you behind your back.
And then I'd say, "Thanks to you," and I'd lift their hearts with my words.
You're amazing!" Men are so happy to hear that, they try their hardest.
Women support men from the shadows
Because if you go out in the open, there's a lot of danger.
I'm afraid of it. I don't like it.
So look at the pictures of the wives of the great men of the past.
They hide their wisdom behind their eyes.
Hard to live with that now: ・・・・
There are so few smart men now, and so many more women who get out in front.
I don't care if it's two sides of the same coin. Smart you think.
Which side is happier for you.
First and foremost your spiritual interests.
And how can you make your happiness last longer?
How you can live without strain
Unfortunately, women in the media today are not smart enough to be fooled.
They are lowering the status of women in the opposite direction!
By "smart" I mean you, a woman who has the knowledge and wisdom to survive.
What would I do
Acquire the qualifications to become independent at any time
In today's male-dominated society, it is difficult to find a job due to age and other reasons.
Then, I would think about a business where I can start my own business by myself with little money.
I've already been preparing in that direction for six months.
I can't ~~ there is no life for you.
It is. Let's find it.
Don't run away. Pioneer your future.
Don't close yourself off, open up your life.
Your happiness is dancing there.