3月9日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【アルメリア】
花ことばは【共感】です(^^♪
共感できる人がそばにいてくれると安心
共感する人がいなかったら、不安
人って、生きていく上で”共感”が大事だと思いませんか
共感＝味方って感じだもんね
もし、あなたに共感してくれる人がいなかったら、世界でたった独りぼっちになった気がする・・・
本当はそんなことないのよ
あなたの周りに見える数人が共感しないだけで、大げさに言ったら、地球上にはたくさんの共感者がいるわ
近くに共感者がいなかったら、まず考えるの
「私の思っていることがおかしいのかな」
例えば、お金がないのに、豪邸を今すぐほしい
これは誰でも、あなたがお金を持っていない事知ってるから、共感できない
だけど、「一生懸命努力して、30年後に豪邸建てる！」は共感できる
次に、あなたが歌手になりたいと言って、”共感できない”は間違い
もし音痴でも、あなたの努力次第で、夢は叶うかもしれないでしょ
誰も、その人の夢を否定や潰すことはできないし、してはいけない
”森進一”って演歌歌手知ってる
彼が出た時に、評論家たちは「あなたの声では歌手にはなれない」って可能性を否定したの
でも今は歌手では大御所になってる
あれから自分の声を生かした凄い努力したのね
だから、未来はあなたの努力次第
あなたの努力で、共感してくれる人は増えていく
未来はどんな形にも変えることは出来るわ
窓の外はさっきまで青空だったのに、今は雪がチラつき始めた
残念・・・と落ち込んでしまうあなた
もっと降ったら、雪景色を楽しもう！！と胸躍るあなた
どっちのあなたに共感できる
1人でも、あなたと、あなた自身で、考えが違うかも
いつも今日を楽しみなさい
心と共感できる未来を今日も思う存分歩いてね
Happy Birthday, March 9!
Today's flower is 【Almeria】.
The language of flowers is "empathy.
It's comforting to have someone by your side who can empathize with you
I would feel insecure if I didn't have someone to empathize with.
Don't you think "empathy" is important for people to live
Sympathy = ally
If you don't have anyone who can relate to you, you feel all alone in the world ...
The truth is, that's not true.
Just because a few people you see around you don't share your feelings, doesn't mean there aren't many others on the planet who do!
If I don't have a sympathetic ear nearby, my first thought is.
'Is there something wrong with what I'm thinking'
For example, I don't have any money, but I want a mansion right now.
This is hard for anyone to relate to because they know you don't have any money.
But, "I will work hard and build a mansion in 30 years! is something I can relate to.
Secondly, you say you want to be a singer, and "I can't relate" is wrong!
Even if you are tone deaf, your dream could come true if you work hard enough!
No one can or should deny or crush a person's dream!
Do you know the enka singer Shinichi Mori
When he came out, the critics said, "Your voice doesn't make you a singer," and they dismissed his potential.
But now he's a great singer.
He's done a great job with his voice since then.
So the future depends on your efforts.
With your efforts, the number of people who sympathize with you will increase.
You can change the future in any way you want.
The sky outside the window was blue just a moment ago, but now it's starting to flicker with snow!
Too bad... and you are depressed.
If it rains more, let's enjoy the snowy scenery! and you are excited
Which of you can you relate to?
Even one person, you, yourself, might think differently.
Always enjoy today.
Walk as far as you can today into a future that you can share with your heart.