2月26日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【ミズバショウ】
花ことばは【決心】です(^^♪
花言葉の”決心”に、あなたは何を決心しますか
今日、何を食べるかと言う小さな決心から、こう生きよう
と言う大きな決心まで、いろんな決心があります
一番いいのは、深く考えなくていい”決心”
人生に大きな決心はそう何度もある事ではないので、出来るだけ考えたくない
普通かどうかはその人次第だけど、例えば、結婚・離婚・就職・転職、これくらいの決心だったら良しとしようなんてね
それ以上で言えば、妊娠・出産・・・・これ以上は止めとこう
いろんな状況の決心がその時々に必要だけれど、そして完璧な決心なんて、ありもしないし、どちらかと言うと、失敗のほうが多いけれど
その決心のたびに、あなたはあなたの心を大切に抱きしめなさい
辛い事があった時、慰めてくれる人もいるかもしれないけれど、”のど元過ぎれば熱さ忘れる”のことわざ通り、当人以外はいつまでもクヨクヨしていない
だって、生活があるし、当人じゃないんだもの
それはあなたでも他の人の出来事だったら、一緒でしょ
だから、当人であるあなたが落ち着くまで、あなたが心を抱きしめるしかないのよ
決心がどの道に進んでも、自分の心を温めておけば、例え失敗したとしても、傷は思ったよりも深くならないわ
そして未来への踏み出しが早く始まる
間違っても、心の傷が治らないうちに一歩を踏み出さない事
それが成功のコツ
そして、出来るだけ問題を自然に交わすコツを身につけなさい
無理やり人生を切り開かず、状況に合わせて、まずはほんの少しドアを開く
そして心に、「行っていいかな？」と問いかける
心だって神様じゃないから間違える事だってあるのは覚えておいてね
ぐずぐずと決めた決心も有り
さっさと歩きだした決心も有り
結局、行かないと決めた決心だって有り
どんな決心でもお婆はいいと思うよ
だって、迷った末の決心で成功する事だってあるし、これしかないと決めて失敗した決心だってあるのが人生だもの
生きてさえいれば何度、何十度もやり直しは聞くのだから、これが最後のやり直しなんて、最高齢の年寄りになって、棺に入れられた時に初めて観念すればいい
それまでは、あなたの人生だ。後悔しないように生きなさい
「あの時、あぁすれば良かったのに」とあなた以外の人から注釈されたら、「私、人間だから、間違いだってあるんです」でほっときなさい
どん底にいても、そうじゃなくても、あなたの未来は輝いているわ
さぁ、明日に向かってあなたらしい人生を、歩きだしなさい
February 26th Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is "mizubasho" and its language is "resolve"(^^♪♪).
What do you resolve to do when you hear the word "resolve" in the language of flowers
There are many decisions, from a small decision of what to eat today, to a big decision of how to live your life.
The best thing to do is to make a decision that you don't have to think about too much.
It's not often that you have to make a big decision in your life, so you don't want to think about it as much as you can.
Whether it is normal or not is up to the person, but for example, marriage, divorce, finding a job, changing jobs...if it is this big of a decision, I think it is good.
More than that, pregnancy and childbirth・・・・
Decisions are made for different situations at different times, and no decision is perfect, and more often than not, it is a failure...
But each time you make a decision, you hold your heart dear to your heart.
There may be people who comfort you when you are going through a hard time, but as the saying goes, "When the heat is gone, the heat is gone," so don't dwell on it for too long, except for the person in question.
Because they have a life, and they are not the person in question.
It's the same for you if it's someone else's event.
So until you, the person in question, calm down, you have to hold on to your heart.
Whichever path your decision takes, keep yourself warm, and even if you fail, the hurt won't be as deep as you think.
And you'll start stepping out into the future faster.
Don't make the mistake of taking a step before your wounds have healed.
That is the key to success.
And get the hang of mingling problems as naturally as possible.
Don't force your way through life, but first open the door just a little bit, depending on the situation.
And ask your heart, "May I go?" and ask, "Can I go?
Remember, the heart is not God, and it can make mistakes.
Some decisions are made with a lot of deliberation
Some decisions are made to walk away quickly
Some decisions were made without much thought, and some were made without much thought.
Whatever your decision, I think it's fine.
Because, after all, there are times in life when you make a decision that you are not sure about and succeed, and there are times when you make a decision that you fail because it is the only one you have.
As long as you're alive, you can make a dozen or dozens of second chances, and you won't know if it's the last one until you're the oldest person in the world and in a coffin.
Until then, it's your life. Live your life without regrets.
When someone other than you says, "I wish I had done that back then," just say, "I'm only human, I can make mistakes.
Whether you're at rock bottom or not, your future is bright!
Now, start walking toward tomorrow, living your own life!