2月17日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【ネコヤナギ】
花ことばは【素直】です(^^♪
人間は素直が一番
分かっているのに、なかなか素直になれないのも人間
つい、反対の事を行ったり、じらしてみたり、よっぽど甘えたい気持ちが強いのね
それが癖になり、性格になってしまうと周りは困ってしまうし、あなたは大損
お婆はその代表格でした
ずっと母親の膝に抱かれて、頭をなでてほしいと思っていたのに、いつも喧嘩ばかりして・・・・母が無くなる数年前に、「母さん、ごめんね」と言えました
「母さんのせいで、みんな、こうなったのよ
」と責めてばかりしかいなかったけれど、母は良かれと信じていたのだと、自分が年老いて初めて分かった・・・
今はね、母が生きている間に謝れたことが嬉しい
それからも周りにひねくれてばかり
何にも素直になれず、70歳近くなった時に、魔物が取り払われたように、素直になれた
素直になれたら、どんどん、幸せが降り注ぎ始めた
本当にびっくりするくらいに
だから、あなたにも伝えたい
幸せになりたかったら、素直になりなさい
あなたを不幸にする人たちから遠ざかりなさい
それだけで今、この瞬間から、あなたは幸せになれる
今日の天気は曇り
でも、朝から心がウキウキしてる
70歳過ぎても、女学生のように胸がときめくっておかしい
年取るって、素敵だよ
高齢者って、なおさら素敵
若者が知らない素敵な世界が目の前に広がっていく
悔しかったら、歳をとってみな
って、言うか、そうなれるのはあなた次第
どんな人生を送ってもいい
反省や後悔いっぱいの人生でもＯＫ
だって、人間だもの。ミスして当たり前
気づいたら、焦らず、ゆっくり軌道修正すればいいだけのこと
それともう一つ、お金の有る無しで幸不幸は決まらないわ
”素直”はいつでもおいでって手を広げて、微笑んで、あなたを待っているわ
February 17th Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is pussy willow.
The language of flowers is "honesty.
Human beings are best when they are honest
We know that, but it's hard for us to be honest.
You are always trying to do the opposite, or trying to bully people, or trying to be too nice to them.
If it becomes a habit or a personality, people around you will be in trouble and you will lose a lot of money.
I was a prime example of that.
I always wanted to be held in my mother's lap and pat her on the head, but we always fought and ・・・・ a few years before she passed away, I was able to say, "I'm sorry, Mom.
I always blamed my mother for what had happened to all of us because of her, but I realized only when I got old that she had believed in her own good intentions.
Now, I am glad that I was able to apologize to my mother while she was still alive.
Even after that, I was always cynical about the people around me.
I couldn't be honest about anything, but when I was almost 70 years old, it was as if a demon was lifted from me and I was able to be honest.
Once I became honest, happiness began to pour down upon me.
It was truly astonishing.
So I want to tell you something.
If you want to be happy, be honest.
Stay away from people who make you unhappy.
Only then, from this moment on, you will be happy!
Today's weather is cloudy
But my heart has been racing since this morning.
It's funny that even though I'm over 70 years old, my heart still flutters like a schoolgirl's
Growing old is wonderful!
Older people are even more wonderful
A wonderful world that young people don't know opens up before their eyes
If you feel frustrated, grow old!
I mean, it's up to you to be.
You can live any life you want.
A life full of remorse and regret is OK
Because you are human. It's natural to make mistakes.
When you notice them, you just need to correct them slowly and without rushing.
And one more thing, money doesn't determine your happiness or unhappiness.
The "honest" is always waiting for you with open arms and a smile.