2月2日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【シラー】
花ことばは【冷静】です(^^♪
シラーの美しさに思わず見とれて、言葉を忘れてしまいます
毎日の忙しさに、私たちは何気ない美しさを通り過ぎているんじゃないかしら
わずかの余裕で、素敵な感動に気づく時があるのかも
いつも”冷静”でいられたらいいのだけれど、なかなか難しい
買い物に行って帰宅してみると、あれもこれもと忘れ物が多くて、またでかける羽目になってしまう
買うものをメモしていけばいいのに、「そんな時間はいっぱいあったのに」と、おっちょこちょいに呆れてしまう
”冷静”っていいけど、いつもいつも”冷静”でいると、「なんだか生きてる気がしないわ」とか、「冷たい人ねって思われそうで嫌だわ」とか、自分に都合の良い言葉を列記してしまう
24時間、”冷静”じゃなくてもいいのです
それが人間なのだから
トラブルがあった時、一瞬、立ち止まって考える
興奮しているときの結論と、冷静でいるときの結論はきっと違うから、一瞬でいいから、”冷静”を取り戻すせたらいいね
地震その他の災害で、思わぬことに出くわす時がないとも限らない
”冷静”になる暇もなく、行動しなきゃいけない時もある
だから、あなたはあなたでいよう
その時が興奮の真っ最中でも、冷静なひと時でも、あなたはあなたらしく
それが後から振り返った時、一番後悔しないと思うから
過去を振り返った時に、あぁすれば良かった、こうすれば良かったと反省するけれど、万が一、過去にタイムスリップしたときに、やり直そうとしても、その時のあなたの結論は何度、やりなおしたとしても、きっと同じことを選ぶと思うから
それよりも、未来の為に後悔や反省を覚えている事
次に新しいトラブルが起きたときに、その後悔や反省を生かす事
きっと、それが”冷静”と言う意味だと、お婆は思うのです
何回、何十回、何百回、たくさんの同じ失敗をしてきて、人生の終わりにやっと気づいたお婆だから、あなたに伝えられる
どんなことが未来に起きても、あなたはあなた
未来は嫌な事ばかりじゃないわ
だから未来を胸ときめかせて、もし嫌な事が起きても”冷静に”受け止めて、次に起きる素敵な明日を夢見てね
February 2nd Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is Syrah.
The language of flowers is "calm".
The beauty of Schiller's makes me forget to say a few words!
In our daily busyness, we may be passing by the beauty without even thinking about it.
Maybe there are times when we can find a little bit of space and notice a wonderful impression.
I wish I could stay "calm" all the time, but it's not easy!
I go shopping and come home to find that I have forgotten so many things that I have to go back out again.
I should have written down what I was going to buy, but instead I am so busy that I am left with the feeling that "I had plenty of time to do that".
It's nice to be "calm," but if you're always "calm," you'll say things like, "I don't feel like living," or "I don't want people to think I'm cold," or any number of other words that suit you. or "I don't feel like living" or "I don't want to seem cold.
You don't have to be "calm" 24 hours a day.
That's just human nature.
When you are in trouble, stop and think for a moment.
The conclusion you come to when you are excited is probably different from the conclusion you come to when you are calm, so it would be good if you could regain your "calm" for a moment.
You never know when you will encounter something unexpected in an earthquake or other disaster.
There are times when we have to act without time to "cool down".
So be yourself!
Whether it's in the middle of excitement or a moment of calm, just be yourself.
Because I think you'll have the fewest regrets when you look back on it later.
When you look back on the past, you will reflect on what you should have done, and what you should have done, but in case you go back in time and try to start over, your conclusion at that moment will probably be the same no matter how many times you try to do it over again.
More importantly, remembering your regrets and remorse for the future.
The next time a new problem arises, we should make use of our regrets and reflections.
I believe this is what it means to be "calm"!
I have made the same mistake many times, dozens, hundreds of times, and I finally realized it at the end of my life, so I can tell you this
No matter what happens in the future, you are you.
The future is not all bad.
So be excited about the future, and if something bad happens, just accept it "calmly" and dream about the next wonderful tomorrow!