2月1日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【フリージア】
花ことばは【純愛】です(^^♪
中学の頃、ドキドキする男の子がいて、通り過ぎる時にどこかが触れると、わざと、汚いのが触れたみたいに、ごしごしとこすったものです
本当は嬉しいのに、その反対の事をする・・・あなたにもそんな想い出がありませんか
想い出すと、その時の自分の可愛らしさに微笑んでいる
でもね、その１回だけが”純愛”ではないのです
何回、何十回、いろんな人を愛そうと、その時のあなたは純愛に輝いています
お金や物の為に、人を愛するのを純愛とは決して言わないけど、それ以外なら、相手が同性であろうと、どちらの歳の差があろうと、それはあなたにとっての”純愛”
だって、デートする前の晩からドキドキするでしょ
何を着て行こうかって、ワクワクするでしょ
幾つになろうと、どんな状況であろうと、そのドキドキは初恋の時から何も変わらない
お婆なんて、夫が亡くなって十四年経つと言うのに、今でもドキドキ
夫が生き返るなら、その瞬間に死んでもかまわないって、躊躇(ちゅうちょ)なく言えるもの
たくさんのあなた達の中には、同じように、今はこの世にいない人を愛し続けてる”純愛”のあなたがいると思う
同じ環境なのに、残念ながら、どんなあなたにもお婆は叶わない
それほど、ろくでもない人生を送ってきてるから、今のあなたを見ると、素晴らしい以外の言葉が出てこない
こうして書いているのは、若いあなたに同じ経験をしないで済むように、71歳のお婆の半生録かもしれないね
「私の方がもっと凄いわよ」って人がいたら、お婆は言います
「それだけ、未来が明るいわよ」って
人は他の人の悪口は平気で話すけど、自分の悪い事は隠します
そして、これ以上傷つきたくないから、隠していいと思うの
でもね、その分、人を優しく包みましょ
それもまた違った意味の”純愛”だから
”純愛”は人間同士の愛も”純愛”なのです
もしかしたら意識してないかもしれないけれど、あなたは生まれた時から、その”純愛”に包まれ、育ち、次に他の人々を包んでいる
それだけあなたは素敵な人よ
2月は１年中で一番寒い月で、今日からその２月が始まったと言うのに、どこか温かく感じない
それは寒さの中にも春が始まっている証拠
一日一日、温かくなり、一日一日、あなたの”純愛”は膨らみ始めます
心が温まったら、”純愛”の活動開始
今日も行ってらっしゃい
February 1st Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is Freesia.
The language of flowers is "pure love.
When I was in junior high school, there was a boy who made my heart pound, and when he passed by, if he touched me anywhere, I would rub him on purpose, as if he had touched me with something dirty.
Do you have such memories of doing the opposite of what makes you happy?
When I think back on it, I smile at how cute I was at the time.
But you know, that one time is not "pure love"!
No matter how many times, how many dozens of times, how many different people you love, you are still shining with pure love at that moment!
I would never call loving someone for money or material things pure love, but other than that, it's "pure love" for you, no matter what sex you are with, or what your age difference is.
Because you get excited the night before you go on a date.
You get excited about what to wear.
No matter how old you are, no matter what the situation, that excitement is the same as when you first fell in love.
My husband has been dead for 14 years, and I am still excited about it.
I can say without hesitation that I wouldn't mind dying at that very moment if my husband would come back to life.
I know there are many of you out there with the same "pure love" who are still in love with someone who is no longer in this world.
You guys are more amazing than I am, unfortunately, despite being in the same environment!
I've lived such a crappy life that when I look at you now, I can't say anything other than wonderful!
I'm writing this so that you, young man, don't have to go through the same experience... at 71 years old, this is my life story!
If someone says, "I'm even more awesome than you are," I say.
"That's how bright your future is."
People don't mind talking about other people's bad things, but they hide their own bad things
And they don't want to get hurt anymore, so they think it's okay to hide it.
But, you know, let's wrap people up in kindness.
That's another way of saying "pure love"!
Pure love is also "pure love" between human beings!
You may not be aware of it, but from the time you are born, you are surrounded by it, you grow up in it, and then you surround others with it.
That's how wonderful you are!
February is the coldest month of the year, and even though that February started today, doesn't it feel somehow warmer?
It is a sign that spring has begun even in the midst of coldness.
Day by day, it gets warmer and warmer, and day by day, your "pure love" begins to swell!
Once your heart is warmed up, your "pure love" will begin its activity!
Have a great day!