1月10日 お誕生日おめでとうございます
今日の花は【ナワシロイチゴ】
花ことばは【恩恵】です(^^♪
恩恵って聞くと両親を想います
この世に生まれて最初に愛をくれた人だからです
今日は亡父の誕生日でもあり、なおさらに父の事を想い出します
お父さんって何だか損ですよね
電話してもお父さんが出ると、まず「お母さんは
」って子供は聞くんですもの～
家に帰っても、「お母さんは」だと、お父さんは寂しくなってしまう
小さい時にあれだけ可愛がったのに、最終的には離れていく・・・
でも、どれだけ離れても子供は可愛くてたまらない
お母さんも一緒
娘は大きくなるにつれて、ライバル視され、そのくせ、父親には甘えた猫なで声で、お小遣いをねだったりする・・・「腹立つわ
」と思うけれど、しょんぼりしてるところを見ると、「どうしたの」と心配せずにはいられない
あなたがどうであれ、ご両親は目に入れても痛くないほど、あなたが可愛いのです
あなたの好きなお菓子を見れば、買ってしまう
あなたに似合いそうな服を見れば、つい手に取ってみてしまう
遠くに離れていると、「元気かしら 泣いてないかしら」と、気になって仕方がない
両親くらい、見返りを必要としない愛を子ど達に注ぐ人はいません
あなたにはご両親以外にもたくさんの方が、いろんな形で恩恵をくださっているのでしょうね
そして、いつかはあなたがいろんな人に優しさや慈しみなどの恩恵を与えているのでしょう
その時になって、初めていろんな恩恵をもらったことを実感するのかもしれません
外は曇っています
父の泣きそうな顔が見えるようです
これから、父の好きな食べ物でも買ってきて、一緒に食べようかな
たまにはあなたもどうですか
まだご健在なご両親と、または天国に逝かれたご両親と、一緒に恩恵の時を過ごしませんか
January 10 Happy Birthday!
Today's flower is "nawashiroichigo".
The language of flowers is "benefit.
When I hear the word "grace" I think of my parents.
I think of my parents because they were the first people in this world to give me love.
Today is also my late father's birthday, which reminds me of him even more.
Fathers are kind of a loss.
When you call and the father answers, the first thing the child asks is, "Where's my mother?
When they get home, they ask, "Where's Mom?" That makes the father feel lonely.
He loved them so much when they were little, but eventually he leaves them...
But no matter how far apart they are, children are always so adorable
Mothers are the same.
As she grows older, she is seen as a rival, and yet she has a spoiled, catty voice to her father, begging for pocket money... "It pisses me off," I think, but when I see her sulking, I can't help but worry, "What's wrong?
Whatever you are, your parents love you!
If I see a candy that you like, I'll buy it.
When I see an outfit that looks good on you, I can't help but pick it up.
When you are far away from me, I can't help but wonder how you are and if you are crying.
No one gives more love to their children without needing anything in return than their parents.
I'm sure there are many people besides your parents who have benefited you in many ways!
And someday you will be giving the benefits of kindness and compassion to all kinds of people.
Only then will you realize how much you have benefited from them.
It's cloudy outside.
I can see my father's tearful face.
I'm thinking of buying my father's favorite food and eating it with him.
How about you, too, once in a while?
Why don't you spend a time of blessing with your parents who are still alive, or with those who have passed away?