People are not sages, all have their own beauty complex, have the defensive instinct, generally do not love to listen to the critical opinion. Let the unloved ones accept criticism, need to go beyond emotional reason, and the art of criticism.
One is to be right, to understand. The purpose of criticism is to accept criticism. Criticism is a process of setting facts, reasoning, debating and consenting. The correct criticism is the product of the critics' words and sentences, which is also the result of the criticism and the criticism.
The second is to speak clearly and clearly. The value of criticism is straightforward. Hesitating, concealing, bashful, dodging, is the style of the city slicker and "official field". Effective criticism is the product of the critics' clear views, solid arguments and strict logic. It is also the result of the resonance of the critic's conscience and the recognition of criticism.
Three is to say, to listen. Criticism is not to be grateful, but not to be grudges, not to be enemies. In face of criticism, the heart of the oral person has, the heart of the mouth, the mouth of the heart, the heart not to accept, the heart of the rebellious, angry, even the heart of the haters. Successful criticism is the product of the critic's confidence-building and self-acceptance, and the result of being open and receptive to criticism.
The ancients said that the people who were concerned, the spectators, and those who were honest, were unfaithful. For the benefit of others, to risk offending others, to criticize others who are more willing to accept praise, the courage to criticize, and the art of criticism.
Have you done the above three?