Suddenly I remember what my dad told me when I was young,
I was watching an old chinese ancient drama with all those spiritual beings and I remember that the main protagonist is actually the main girl's older sister (tada the traditional twist!) and then I asked him,
"Dad, so they are sisters but the old one is the one who doing wrong things?" or something like that
And then my dad said,
"Not really, she doesn't feel like she is the wrong one."
Now I have to tell you, do NOT confuse your child like that, I was like... 4? 5? 6? I can't even remember, but I remember felt annoyed because my dad kept saying things like,
"No one thinks that s/he is wrong, so she is not the wrong one."
Yeah, now I understand, but my brain at that time couldn't digested that kind of philosophy.
Now if I think about it again, I think my dad likes the older sister and that's why he couldn't bring himself to say that the older sister is the bad guy, lol.
Why I'm writing this now?
Because I kinda agree with what my dad said, when someone hold their opinion sturdily, it means that s/he thinks that it's right,
of course some people do re-think their actions and stuffs,
but when someone did that, it's what s/he thinks it's right,
except when it's for his or her own benefit, I guess we gotta remember that and respect what people are doing,
and of course tell them our opinion if we think it's wrong,
but remember, as they think it's right do not attack or blame them.
Misunderstanding is also an important word.
The evil older sister still should be destroyed though, sorry dad.
P.S. the title is from Phoenix Wright (or Gyakuten Saiban in Japanese), lol.
I was watching an old chinese ancient drama with all those spiritual beings and I remember that the main protagonist is actually the main girl's older sister (tada the traditional twist!) and then I asked him,
"Dad, so they are sisters but the old one is the one who doing wrong things?" or something like that
And then my dad said,
"Not really, she doesn't feel like she is the wrong one."
Now I have to tell you, do NOT confuse your child like that, I was like... 4? 5? 6? I can't even remember, but I remember felt annoyed because my dad kept saying things like,
"No one thinks that s/he is wrong, so she is not the wrong one."
Yeah, now I understand, but my brain at that time couldn't digested that kind of philosophy.
Now if I think about it again, I think my dad likes the older sister and that's why he couldn't bring himself to say that the older sister is the bad guy, lol.
Why I'm writing this now?
Because I kinda agree with what my dad said, when someone hold their opinion sturdily, it means that s/he thinks that it's right,
of course some people do re-think their actions and stuffs,
but when someone did that, it's what s/he thinks it's right,
except when it's for his or her own benefit, I guess we gotta remember that and respect what people are doing,
and of course tell them our opinion if we think it's wrong,
but remember, as they think it's right do not attack or blame them.
Misunderstanding is also an important word.
The evil older sister still should be destroyed though, sorry dad.
P.S. the title is from Phoenix Wright (or Gyakuten Saiban in Japanese), lol.