Talking about the cost of weddings, the thing that comes up most is the cost of alcohol - and the fear of what the total bill could be if relatives and friends are let loose at the bar.
More traditional guests may find a cash bar tacky and rude, and expect the wedding couple to put on "adequate refreshments" for invited guests. But for those on a tight budget, it only makes sense to ask guests to chip in.
I usually suggest that if you don't want to, or can't afford a full bar, a mixed approach is best and well received by guests. Having a bubbly handed to you straight after the ceremony is a lovely touch to start the event off well. The option of a cash bar until dinner is totally acceptable, if guests know in advance that this will be happening and their options for paying.
A beer and wine service is welcomed through dinner, and then have the DJ or MC announce that the bar is open for guests to purchase drinks after dinner. This is a way to treat your guests well and not spend a fortune.
, the thing that comes up most is the cost of alcohol - and the fear of what the total bill could be if relatives and friends are let loose at the bar.
More traditional guests may find a cash bar tacky and rude, and expect the wedding couple to put on "adequate refreshments" for invited guests. But for those on a tight budget, it only makes sense to ask guests to chip in.
I usually suggest that if you don't want to, or can't afford a full bar, a mixed approach is best and well received by guests. Having a bubbly handed to you straight after the ceremony is a lovely touch to start the event off well. The option of a cash bar until dinner is totally acceptable, if guests know in advance that this will be happening and their options for paying.
A beer and wine service is welcomed through dinner, and then have the DJ or MC announce that the bar is open for guests to purchase drinks after dinner. This is a way to treat your guests well and not spend a fortune.