2026年 息子の高校受験・年末の雑感と最高の年始
高校受験と息子の育て方での後悔息子の高校受験が迫ってきました。息子は2歳の時に発達障害を指摘され、小学校から今まで支援クラスに在籍していました。大きな後悔がそこにあります。通常級でも良かったかな…。当たり外れによる所は多いでしょうが、教員の知識に差があります。通常級でだめだった時に支援級に転籍でも良かった。この決断は間違っていなかったと思ったことは…。向精神薬を処方されていましたが、早々に服用を辞めたこと。これは結果論ですが。服用してすぐにチックが出たことと様子がおかしい様な気がしたので辞めました。医師に相談した所薬を増やす方向にしたいようなので、面従腹背で診察は続けました。薬以外の考えは一致していたので診察は続けてほしかった。正直、コロナ以降医療への信頼は揺らいでいます。年末と最高の年始受験生の息子と2人、家で新年を迎えました。妻と娘達は帰省。最高でした。最近は帰省が億劫で…。妻の実家は広く暖かく居心地が良いのですが、匂いが苦手です。ショウノウなのかな?独特です。あと、テレビが四六時中ついているからか疲れます。家ではテレビがないので、静かに各々やりたい事をやって静かに過ごしました。静かでした(笑)紅白で、キノコ雲で話題の韓国のグループが原爆投下の時間に合わせて登場したと聞いて、新年早々嫌な気持ちになりましたが。明日からはスキーをしに小旅行。目一杯楽しむ予定です!High school entrance exams and Regrets about raising my sonThe day of my son's high school entrance exam is coming.He was identified with a autism at age two and has been in a support class since elementary school.I have a huge regret about that.Maybe regular class would have been fine... While there's just lucky or not, there's a big difference in teacher's knowledge. If regular classes hadn't worked out, swithing to a support class later would have been good enough.The one I thought this decision wasn't wrong...He was prescribed psychotropic medication, but we stopped it early on. This is hindsight, of course.We stopped because tics appeared immediately after starting the medication, and he seemed off.When we talked to the doctor, they seemed to increase the dosage, so we accepted prescription but never gave him pill.We wanted the appointments to continue because we agreed on approaches other than medication.Honestly, my trust in the medical system has been doughtful since COVID.The best of Newyear's eve and newyearMy son, who's studying for entrance exams, and I enjoyed the New Year at home.My wife and daughters went back to their hometown. It was perfect.Lately, going back wife's home has felt like a chore... My wife's family home is spacious, warm, and comfortable, but I can't stand the smell. Maybe it's the incense? It's unique. Also, the TV is on constantly, which is exhausting.At home, we don't have a TV, so we quietly did what I want and spent the time peacefully. It was quiet (lol).Hearing that the Korean group famous for their mushroom cloud performance appeared on Kohaku at the exact time the atomic bomb was dropped made me feel awful right at the start of the new year.We gonna go to ski trip tomorrow, hope to no see trouble.