6：Talking about breaking up
I and my girlfriend broke up about 4 weeks ago. I don't know the specific reason because the separation was one-sided. We did have small arguments sometimes, but did not have big quarrel. We had been a couple for over a year with ease, and I had a thought that these days would continue, so I couldn't believe that. What she said is like "I want to be an independent person". I and her always stuck together, and both of us really relied on each other. I was happy about sticking together with her because my last girlfriend was really busy and we didn't make times to see. However, it seems that she felt some bad feeling about being with each other so many times. I guess she thought that always depending on the other wouldn't make herself better. Since she said that she wanted to live with herself, what I could said was "Do your best".
I decided to cheer her up, but I really was sad. I noticed this feeling when I got back home. I had spent many times with her, and she had become the one who should be next to me. However, she is not the one anymore. The one who was always next to me is not next to me anymore. Besides this fact, what she said when I left her home made me muddy. "You have been one of my best friends", she said. Why she said this? Was it a comfort? How can I be her friend after breaking up? Teasing me? Why women say the word that men will assume that there is not no possibility to be reconciled? My previous girlfriend also said similar thing. Even though I have two sisters, I cannot understand what women's thinking is.
I suggest for all women that when you wanna break up with your boyfriend, just be heartless. Men are fool. If women show the kindness, even a tiny one, if will inflict the men. Also, don't show up after breaking up. Men will be depressed to see that you are with the other men. Please just don't show up. Men are weak, they want to see you again. But don't grant it. Just be heartless. If you really cannot do, please get out from the town, or men should do so.
I decided to cheer her up, but I really was sad. I noticed this feeling when I got back home. I had spent many times with her, and she had become the one who should be next to me. However, she is not the one anymore. The one who was always next to me is not next to me anymore. Besides this fact, what she said when I left her home made me muddy. "You have been one of my best friends", she said. Why she said this? Was it a comfort? How can I be her friend after breaking up? Teasing me? Why women say the word that men will assume that there is not no possibility to be reconciled? My previous girlfriend also said similar thing. Even though I have two sisters, I cannot understand what women's thinking is.
I suggest for all women that when you wanna break up with your boyfriend, just be heartless. Men are fool. If women show the kindness, even a tiny one, if will inflict the men. Also, don't show up after breaking up. Men will be depressed to see that you are with the other men. Please just don't show up. Men are weak, they want to see you again. But don't grant it. Just be heartless. If you really cannot do, please get out from the town, or men should do so.