Lesson

Now I want to talk a little bit about failings, because nobody's
journey is seamless or smooth.

We all stumble. We all have setbacks.
If things go wrong, you hit a dead end, as you will.　
It's just life's way of saying time to change course.

So, ask every failure, this is what I do with every failure,
every crisis, every difficult time, I say, what is this here
to teach me?

And as soon as you get the lesson, you get to move on.
If you really get the lesson, you pass and you don't have to
repeat the class.
If you don't get the lesson, it shows up wearing another
pair of pants, or skirt to give you some remedial work.

But, if you ask the right question, not "why is this happening?",
but "what is this here to teach me??"
it puts you in the place and space to get the lesson you need.