#55
『心がつながるのが怖い』（イルセ・サン著）を読んでいます（その4）
「子ども時代は終わった、人生はもはやかつてのように危険ではないと、自分自身に思い出させることです」(p100)
愛着障害を感じる方にとって、仕事は人間関係や責任が絡む場面が多く、不安やストレスを感じやすい領域です。特に、自分の感情を抑え込みすぎたり、他人の評価を過剰に気にしすぎることが仕事に影響を及ぼすことがあります。
「心がつながるのが怖い」から得た気づきが、仕事だけでなく、日々の生き方にも活かせそうですね。
I'm reading "come closer " (by Ilse Sand ) (Part 4 )
"It's about reminding yourself that childhood is over and that life is no longer as dangerous as it used to be" (p100)
For those who feel attached disorder, work is an area where there are many situations where human relationships and responsibilities are involved, and it is easy to feel anxiety and stress. In particular, suppressing your emotions too much or worrying too much about the evaluation of others can affect your work.
It seems that the realization gained from "I'm afraid of connecting hearts" can be used not only at work, but also in daily life.