He8217s Just Not That Into You8212based on a popular episode of Sex and the City8212is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn8217t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a deadend relationship It8217s the best relationship advice you8217ll ever receive For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or latenight phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men He8217s afraid to get hurt again Maybe he doesn8217t want to ruin the friendship Maybe he8217s intimidated by me He just got out of a relationship Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that8212despite good intentions8212you8217re wasting your time Men are not complicated, although they8217d like you to think they are And there are no mixed messages The truth may be, He8217s just not that into you Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, 8220Youre not the one 8221 But their actions absolutely show how they feel Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo8217s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, 8220I8217m in love with you and want to be with you 8221 He8217s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating It deserves a place on every woman8217s night table It knows you8217re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better The next time you feel the need to start 8220figuring him out,8221 consider the glorious thought that maybe, He8217s just not that into you And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is