Hi, I'm IKUKO JIMBO,
Fractal Psychological counselor.
On a class observation day,
most of parents check their children's name
on a notice in a classroom.
caution?
admiration?
how good other children perform?
So many concerns will come up to the minds.
Actually, if the kid was good at something
and posted on the wall,
great feeling only last a few days.
On the contrary, the bad feeling
which made by the caution from notice
on the wall,
will last a few weeks.
Comparing to others will be necessary
to correct the daily accustom and contribute
to the improvement of study ability.
But, too much comparison is like poison your minds.
You make definitions of
"smart kid"
and
"can not be smart kid".
It is easy to put label to own children
as "can not be smart kid"
by finding bad grade,
notices on a wall at classroom,
and daily attitudes toward prarents.
Then, unconsciously, parents think
this "can not be smart kid" must be cared
and make them not challenge things.
Without knowing, parents become overprotective to kids.
As a result, minds change of parents will be needed
if you have this habit to your children.
The habit of labeling is so difficult to find by oneself.
Fractal Psychology is good at it!
It helps you to find your bad habit and modify.
Come and study TAW!!!