Is it better to be a single than married?

When I image my future, I think marriage is one of the my point in my life. I'd like to make family so I've never thought that I'll be a single. However, there are lots of problems to spend lifetime together.

Firstly, one of the problems is their feelings. My parents often quarrel about a trifling matter with each other. For example, they quarrel about my father's cooking. He can cook but can't clean the kitchen after cooking. My mother tells him but he always gets angry because he thinks that he let her cook. They have different feelings, of course, because they were other persons. However, I believe that I become understand my partner and we can help each other.

The second problem is money. If their sense of value are different, it's too difficult to understand. I occasionally feel that my boyfriend has different sense of value. I can't understand him very well. Besides, if the partner has little salary, my parents will worry about that. Marriage is not only couple's issue but also their parents'.

There are a lot of problems if I would get married. However, I'd like to find best partner and help each other like my parents. The harder we understand and trust ourselves, the happier we are. We can share the happiness in our lives.

Do you think alternative education is good?

Almost all students go to school to study. It's necessary to learn many things. In fact, my personality was formed in my school life. If we go to school, we can learn how to live with people. We have to think about people who are around us and decide or do what they should. It's important to get out into the world.
However, there is homeschooling recently. It's one way to study but it has a lot of demerits. If a student chooses homeschooling, he can be selfish and does what he wants to do. He can't grow up even if his parents believe in him. Therefore, he can't communicate with people when he becomes adult.
To communicate with others, we had better to go to school why then do some students choose homeschooling. It's because they have many problems. Grade is one of them. Teacher often judge students by their test score. I think a test is a just a test. It doesn't show all of their ability. Teachers must understand that. If not, student won't go to school because they will think they are denied their personality. In addition, personal relations is another problems. If there is bullying, teacher must not overlook it and they must make students think, not just offend them. Then they can have opportunity to think about the bullying.
We can learn various things from our school lives. It is necessary to go there to get out into the society. Therefore we should go to school and communicate with someone.

Is it better to take risks or play it safe?

We always adjoin risks whoever alive. Of course, we can choose that to play it safe or to take risks. However, if we play it safe, we can't do anything. "Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Had changed my primary school was my first big risk. I was very quiet and reserved. However,the school was not normally. I used to live in a dormitory with other students without parents since I was 7. Do you think is it strange? When I started to live there, I was sick for home but I could get over my difficulties. That was my first independence from my parents. I got used to live there little by little, and I became cheerfully. Through this experience, not only I took risk but also my parents did. However, if I had not go to the school, I could not have been as I am. My character was made at the special school.

I entered public international high school because I wanted to learn English more. I had a chance to get in the club that was canoe. Canoe club is not major in Japan so I was so interested in it. However, I was not good at playing sports. Although I was uncertain of my ability to do it, I got in the club and thought that was big challenge for me. I decided to be join in it by myself, that's why I never gave up and tried my best until I retired. If I had not take risk that to join the club, I couldn't made such valuable memories.

Through my experience, to take risk is opportunity to growth. We may think that is good choice to do after we take risks. Therefore, I will try to take risks and I would be a respected woman someday soon.