Losers?

I guess it is because you either follow or lead. Even within those realm there are "winners" and "losers" I think. I see it more and more clearly now.

I am kicking myself now-it never pays to be "just nice" when the other party has not proven they
deserve the kindness.

I don't mean to sound dramatic but it is true!

M8 .... how can I even this out..._? Hmmm.... Hnmmm