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金額の他にも、どれだけ自分たちらしい結婚式が挙げれるかどうかも気になるところですよね。
はじめは全く大雑把なイメージしかなかった私ですが、
さすがに4つの会場を回るうちに、実感を伴って具体的なものが出てきました。
(ここまできてようやくだなんて、どんだけ私結婚式から逃げてたんだか…
プレ花嫁名乗るの失格)
- パートナーシップに希望を感じれる式
独身の友達も何人か式に呼びたいので、ぜひパートナーを持つっていいなと思ってほしい
- パートナーシップにわくわくを感じれる式
上に同じ。いろいろな恋愛をしてきて少し疲れた大人女子たちが、また恋愛そして結婚したいと思ってもらえれば…
- 皆にお祝いをしていただく式
祝ってもらって、受け取って、パワーを得て、さらに頑張れるようになりたい
- 皆に対する感謝を伝える式
同時に、感謝をとにかく伝えて、感じてほしい
- 家族に今の自分を知ってもらう式
今よく遊ぶ友達も呼ぶため、家族に今の自分を取り巻く人間関係を知ってもらいたい
要は、現在の私たちを知ってもらい、『結婚っていいな』って思ってもらえればいいな、という挙式披露宴にしたいなぁという結論に
以上から、ついに結婚式場を決めることにっ
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So, not only the cost that we girls need to think about.
Of course, we need to think of how our ideal wedding ceremony/party can be taken place
Place's atomosphere, people who are working, service, facility.....so on.
When I started looking for a place, I didn't have clear images for our wedding (what I had were only very rough ones...) but through out of these visiting, more clear and concrate ones came up
They are below:
- Able to feel the hope for the partnership
some of my single friends are also the guests, so I really wish that they feel hope for the partnership and marriage
- Able to be excited about the partnership
Same as above. Well-grown ladies who have experienced lots of romances and now a little tired can have a motivation to have romance and get married
- Able to get power from the guests
get celebrated from the guests, we receive them, get power and they become further strength for us
- Able to share our gratitude for your family
Just say "Thank You" and show our appriciation to our family
- Albe our family to know the latest "us"
friend guests are mostly we started get ti know after we became full-time workeds. So our family don't know them. Through our wedding, hope we can show the latest our relationship to our family
Just summarizing, we would like to have a ceremony and party that let the current us and also help people feel that the marriage is great
Those are the conditions that we concluded