枯れてしまったお花昔は苦手だったけど
今は美しく感じるのはなぜ？♪笑笑
私最近気づいちゃったかもです
この人苦手かもって人が
自分中にいますたがそれも平和へ
生きてると色んな人と出会い、
関わり、別れがあります。
だけれどその人に対して
最初から否定するのも
なんかちがうなぁとも思います。
ただ合わないと感じただけで。
合う人、合わない人がいるのは
人それぞれで違いますが
特に波長が合わない人との関係
例えば中々お仕事の関係等で
避けられない場合もあります
ただ私苦手な人こそ
上手く関わるﾁｬﾝｽとも捉えられます
これって自分の苦手なお花を
扱う時とそっくりで
少し驚きました^^;
私が上手く関わる時に
解消できたのは
・相手に興味を持ってみる
・なぜ苦手なのか？、の、部分を分析する
・その人の長所を探してみる
・自分から寄り添ってみる
ここを確認したことで
色々自分なりに上手く関わる
解決方法がみえてきました。
ほんのちょこんとの視点や意識を
変えたことがきっかけで、、、
苦手な人との関わりが
良好関係を築けるなんて
ちょっと嬉しくなりました
・素敵と思える
部分に出会えたり
・自分から声かけたり
寄り添ったことで喜ばれたり
・相手を知る、理解する
きっかけが増えたり
・相手の良さに築けなかった部分
に築けたり
相手を知ることで
上手く関わることもできるんだなぁ〜と
ただその「人」のことを
知らなかっただけってこともあるから
思考だけで判断しないように気をつけたいところ。
知れば知るほどその人を
理解して好感度が上がるのは
なぜでしょうか？笑笑
そんなふうに
人とや事との関係も平和へ
苦手を得意にする
自分へ変えていってます♡
いつもありがとうございます♪
【今現在Lessonご案内】
I may have noticed it recently.
A person who may not like this person
I'm inside myself, but that's also for peace.
When I'm alive, I meet a lot of people,
There is a relationship and a farewell.
But for that person
To deny it from the beginning
I also think it's different.
I just felt that it didn't fit.
People who fit, people who don't fit
It's different for each person.
Especially the relationship with people who don't match the wavelength
Due to the work relationship, etc.
Sometimes it's inevitable.
It's just the person I'm not good at.
It can also be seen as a
chance to get involved well.
This is a flower that I don't like.
It's just like when you handle it.
I was a little surprised ^ ^;
When I'm involved well
What I was careful about was
・Try to be interested
・Why are you not good at it? Analyze the part of
・Try to find the person's strengths
・Try to snuggle up on your own
After checking here
I'm involved in various things in my own way.
I've seen a solution.
Just a little point of view and consciousness
Because of the change,,,
Relationships with people who are not good at it
To be able to build a good relationship
I became a little happy.
・It seems wonderful.
You can meet a part.
・I call out to myself
I'm pleased that I'm close to you.
・Know and understand the other person
There are more opportunities.
・The part that could not be built on the goodness of the other party
You can build it in
By knowing the other person
I can also get involved well.
Just about that "person"
Because sometimes I just didn't know.
I want to be careful not to judge only by thinking.
The more you know, the more you know that person
Understanding and increasing favorability is
Why is that? Lol lol
Like that
The relationship between
people and things is also peaceful.
Be good at what you're not good at
I'm changing it to myself♡