Yes! of course! if I
were to answer like that, it would be a little bit of a lie. This
question is a pretty old age topic but truthfully I've never really
considered it before. Probably because I've never been asked. Anyways,
during my commute today this question was written about in a article I
read. Thanks to that article, I was made to think about some
things.Before entering university, I had such few guys friends I didn't
have the luxury of trying to figure out who was only a friend and who
could have been something more. But, after my university debut, all of a
sudden I had a lot more guy friends and along with that, I realized
that with most of them there was always a chance of me wanting them to
be my boyfriend.
If a girl says, "No, not possible" don't worry
it's an obvious lie. Because, if you look at it say the world was ending
and it was only the girl and her guy friend. We can't say something
wouldn't happen. The reason for that is that, regardless of gender when
we make friends we are drawn by something they have. Whether it be their
funniness, their kindness, their coolness, or even their money we like
something about them They have something that we want. To say it
differently, The things that we look for in a friend are the same as the
things we look for in a lover. That's why, the difference between a
lover and a friend is actually pretty close. Friends are simply
candidates for a future lover. Only problem is how to get out of that
friendship stage. Sadly, I don't have the answer to that. But once i
figure it out I'll let you guys know for sure!
In the last two months so much has happened, I
can't even keep up. Actually, during New years I spent my time in New
york. I actually don't care much about New York, but my Japanese friend
wanted to go before going back to Japan. And I wanted to relieve some
stress from school so we went together. It was more expensive than I
thought, but it was a good experience. Because my friend was Japanese,
and being the only native speaker it was naturally left up to me to make
the schedule, and figure out the directions. Up until now, I've always
left that type of work to others, but suddenly become the one who does
it I was a little bit wary. Yet, unexpectedly I actually liked it and it
was even fun!
Then after that trip, school started right away,
but because I struggled a lot there I finally came to a decision. The
day before yesterday, I decided to change my major! Up until now I was
in Accounting, but because I wasn't meant for it at all, my marks were
always bad in accounting. But only accounting classes, my other classes
were really good. That's why I was really worried if I could graduate or
not, and with those worries I went to see an Academic adviser and
received some advice.We discussed together about what would be the best
next step to take for the sake of my future. And, decided in the end
that the best course would be to throw away accounting...
Even
though 2 days have passed after making that decision, I still don't
really beleive it. But if I wasn't truthful to myself, nothing would
ever move forward. and I really do think this was the best step to take.
That's why from this summer, I won't be in accounting but instead in
Management Major. It'll take me some time before I can say that
naturally during my self-introductions lol