I texted my ex gf and i did the same thing to the Australian girl too. but making use of it, ive sharpend myself. if i do what i have to do or challenge myself, i can be a better person compared to her in the future. she will get older and get older, but male values are on their skills, minds, thoughts and money. ofc, communication skills are also improtant. i dont know if she will regret not being my gf. making her regret is not my main purpose. ill do what i should do for myself. live your life and enjoy it