You know when you're going through something really stressful like... looking for jobs or school work.. you just need someone there for you?
to hear you out even
maybe a shoulder to rest your head on
someone to make you relax
most people consider that role for their girl-friends or boy-friend
well, I thought so too
But I guess it's each for their own
In my case, I tend to trust people a lot. And trust and dependency has kind of a grey connection in between in my opinion.
If I can't depend on you when you say you're going to do something, then how am I suppose to trust you right?
Because my next move will be decided based on knowing that I can depend on you
I'm not expecting these people to put me in their number 1 priority, but do what you say you're going to do.
I really can't depend on my parents sometimes. They have so much of their own problems and they are actually pretty unreliable. I learned that the hard way.
I do have a boyfriend. But he seems below friend level on dependency. Whether its his view of how important I am, or his ethics in keeping promises.. i don't know. But I can never get him to do anything.
It's like you have to break through a brick wall. Then another then another.. and after all that effort for just one, simple, SIMPLE task.
It's like i have to beg a GOD to do something for me.
You can't change anyone. No one can. If that person doesn't realize their problems or even attempt to do so.
therefore, you just have to meet other people
perhaps in those heaps of people you meet in the future, there will finally be the one out there for you.
I'm giving up my hopes for this impossible dream with this impossible person.
to hear you out even
maybe a shoulder to rest your head on
someone to make you relax
most people consider that role for their girl-friends or boy-friend
well, I thought so too
But I guess it's each for their own
In my case, I tend to trust people a lot. And trust and dependency has kind of a grey connection in between in my opinion.
If I can't depend on you when you say you're going to do something, then how am I suppose to trust you right?
Because my next move will be decided based on knowing that I can depend on you
I'm not expecting these people to put me in their number 1 priority, but do what you say you're going to do.
I really can't depend on my parents sometimes. They have so much of their own problems and they are actually pretty unreliable. I learned that the hard way.
I do have a boyfriend. But he seems below friend level on dependency. Whether its his view of how important I am, or his ethics in keeping promises.. i don't know. But I can never get him to do anything.
It's like you have to break through a brick wall. Then another then another.. and after all that effort for just one, simple, SIMPLE task.
It's like i have to beg a GOD to do something for me.
You can't change anyone. No one can. If that person doesn't realize their problems or even attempt to do so.
therefore, you just have to meet other people
perhaps in those heaps of people you meet in the future, there will finally be the one out there for you.
I'm giving up my hopes for this impossible dream with this impossible person.