What is a rude reply?
Today,i received a phone call from a warrant,he say he is looking for one of my colleague so i reply ok hold on.My colleague then tell me that warrant ask for my name and say i am rude in my reply.I was wondering...in what way am i rude? I never say "you wait" or never even say anything,in what way am i rude? If its the tone of my reply,its even strange cause i just say nicely ok hold on.Ok,maybe i admit its a bit fast when i say that but...is that really rude?
The definition of rude goes "discourteous or impolite, esp. in a deliberate way: a rude reply." or " without culture, learning, or refinement: rude, illiterate peasants."...now which of this represent me being rude?
Whatever it is...i am been marked a rude person to this warrant.Sometimes when you say people rude,its all an one sided view.To have strong reason of showing the person being rude,must have more than one person to judge it instead of one person.I can say anyone rude,if the particular person replies did not make me happy.Does that sound logical?
Seriously i can really write lot about human nature,i might be a person who don't really know how to social much...but i seen a lot of different people.
I think i cannot take joke anymore,in fact i already say i don't care any more.I don't care whatever goes around me any more...or even anything about myself.I kind of give up thinking about it.I try my best in changing myself...but i cannot win myself in the end.